we're what?

Mom2DyJessAva · #1 January 6th, 2012, 08:55 AM

I wasnt going to say anything but had to!...

last night aaron came over to watch a movie (wedding singer)..we talked about ava and how fast time flew things like that..

he got home and texted..and i was already half asleep and said something like "you should..be mine lol" and he texted back asking me what i meant..I asked him what did he think i meant and he said "going steady?" and he said "we are going steady,weve been dating right lol "..I was soo confused and i said that he never said anything and he said "not thru words,well i thought we were"...I said i had no idea and he said "well i am yours!"...

I dont even no when he considered us "going steady" and I still dont even know what to think or feel on the subject..

Mom2Brendan · #2 January 6th, 2012, 12:09 PM

Interesting indeed.

orrickster · #3 January 6th, 2012, 08:45 PM

Ya he sounds like a very confusing guy! At least that is clearing something up. Hopefully he can commit himself to you and Ava now. Is this something you want?

Mom2DyJessAva · #4 January 7th, 2012, 05:31 AM

I always wanted him to commit to us..Ive been single for almost my whole pregnancy and it always hurt to think of him with someone else..but at the same time I am scared because if I fall for him like I did before it will probably hurt 100x more...

Ever since he cleared that up he's been a little different...he says he misses me or he will text out of the blue..Im still in the mindframe we are just friends so nothing hasnt changed for me...

joey_emmysmommy · #5 January 7th, 2012, 08:55 AM

I hope that he can give you and Ava what you want. Maybe he is finally growing up.
Hope things turn out great for you

orrickster · #6 January 9th, 2012, 06:20 PM

Well it's smart to take it very slow. Don't let yourself jump in too quick. Test the waters and see what he's really about this time.

I'm kind of in the same situation with a guy that said he wanted to be with me, but lied. All he wanted was a good lay. I was really into him so it hurt. We didn't talk for months and then started texting again and I've seen him a few times, but refused to allow myself to jump in until I was 100% sure he was telling the truth. Turns out he wasn't. I am officially done with him.

Hoping the best for you!