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September 2nd, 2012, 05:57 AM
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Hey my name is Maddie. i just wanted to introduce myself. I've been on JustMommies for a while now but just found my way here...

My son Tuckr was just born August 28th and his dad....well things were rocky to start with, and now i guess he's gone...
its such a complicated situation. but long story short he is an abusive, controlling, bad tempered, immature, selfish idiot who cant even grow up for his son...

so I'm a single mom...
I've been fighting it for so long but i guess i kind of had an epiphany moment when i finally realized that we are so much better off without him...
i didnt want to say that because i "love" him, but that was until my son was born. and now i realize just what i had been hoping for will NEVER come true. at all. ever. he will never change.

there hasnt been much talk but he wants to fight me for custody i guess. even tho i have begged him to come see us since we got out of the hospital and he refuses. we dont live together because when i was 3 months pregnant he pushed me out of a car while we were fighting. it went to court and instead of fighting for him to get help i tried to help him so we could "be together" and his sentence went from a year in jail and classes to a plea bargain that i helped negotiate of 2 months probation and a $300 in fines...
he is not a safe person, and i am very afraid that he will get half custody. he abuses animals and he is rough and mean and hurtful and i am so terrified...
he doesnt have a job or any income at all.

well that was a longer intro than i planned...
but yea i am just finally done. i dont care how much i love him...my son is my everything...
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September 8th, 2012, 08:32 AM
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Welcome here. I'm Traci Mom to Brendan who is 8 yrs old. Tucker is a cutie.
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September 11th, 2012, 01:47 PM
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Thank you
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October 13th, 2012, 11:32 AM
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Your little boy is beautiful.
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October 18th, 2012, 02:36 PM
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I would think for him to get any sort of custody/visitation he would have to file in court and I'd ASSUME that he'd need to have a job and financially support his child. Also, I'd tell him good luck w/ getting full custody... He'd basically have to prove you unfit and well, with the charges he has against him and the fact that he hasn't been involved... I would not be worried.

I'm hoping for the best for you! Welcome and yes, you have an adorable little guy!!
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