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February 16th, 2007, 05:40 PM
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Why is it that I crave to be near someone and to feel needed for a little while and when I don't get that feeling why is it that I crave the feeling of total control as I slice through my skin with a pair of scissors? I am trying to fight it I really am but I am finding it so hard... I just want control I want to feel like I can be in control of my feelings, total control... I need to cut... I desperately need to cut...I can't keep gonig like this anymore I am scared and I feel alone I don't know who to talk to.. I need someone to come hold me and not let go...
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February 17th, 2007, 04:29 AM
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your emotions are pent up inside and you need to get it out ... that's all ... its just that your coping method is a bit destructive on YOU

please read the following link and try as HARD as you can to use some of the techniques to release k?

Alternatives to Self Injury

You are NOT alone ... you are hurting and that's quite understandable ... you can get through this tough time k?

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February 17th, 2007, 07:21 AM
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Yes, you definitely need to find an alternative! I know it gives you a feeling of control and release but if you think about it, cutting is really an addiction. You're addicted to the way it makes you feel. So it's really controlling you ... when you cut you are not in control ... if you want control that's not the way to get it!

I am so sorry you feel this need ... it's like the feeling I get when I'm so frustrated that I can't help throwing things. It makes me feel like I am controlling something in my life but I'm NOT. My anger and hurt are controlling ME.
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February 17th, 2007, 10:27 AM
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I managed to not cut at all thank god but now my skin is still crawling I will have a look at that link definatly x
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February 17th, 2007, 10:53 AM
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I managed to not cut at all thank god but now my skin is still crawling I will have a look at that link definatly x[/b]
I'm glad you didnt cut ... well done sweetie! proud of you! yes, read the link and actually bookmark it so you can have it close at hand k?

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February 17th, 2007, 10:57 AM
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I will do thanks hun xxx
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February 17th, 2007, 02:30 PM
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you're welcome ... if you need any more information, please let me know k?

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February 17th, 2007, 06:04 PM
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uhuh I will do
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February 17th, 2007, 09:11 PM
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I am so glad you didn't cut Ellie. I know the feelings you're going through and it sucks. But we're always here to help, don't ever forget that.

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I hope you feel better soon!!
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February 18th, 2007, 09:26 AM
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Thanks hun x
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