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October 20th, 2005, 06:40 PM
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Ladies I just want to let you all know that I'm not angry, sad, or resentful anymore. I don't hate my ex-BF anymore. I forgave him for leaving me, for hurting me, for abandoning our Baby. I made peace with myself and it feels so good. I refuse to subject my Baby to my sadness, it's not fair to him/her. I wish him the best wherever he is. I feel at peace for the first time in weeks. All I can think of is my little one. Good luck to all of you!
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October 21st, 2005, 01:08 PM
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Hello there! I haven't checked this board in awhile and I just saw both of your posts. I am so sorry that you felt ignored! I am glad that you have found a way to make peace with this situation. I know that it's tough when you are really angry and hurt by someone else's actions, but I think often times by forgiving someone else you heal yourself. Then you are able to let go of those negative emotions-and it sounds like after how he acted he doesn't deserve to even be thought about by you or your baby. What you have done is difficult, and brave, and you should be commended for your strength. I hope you know that.

In the future, if you need to chat with someone please feel free to PM me-I would hate for you to feel ignored when posting a message!! This is a really great board to come to-Dori is a great host, and I hope you are able to continue to find strength, both here and in yourself.

Best wishes and ,
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October 22nd, 2005, 12:02 AM
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smbelle-I know I responded back to you on Single Mommies but yes if you ever feel you need to let somethings off your mind I will be here as well.
(and thank you Erica for the nice words-I do my best)

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October 23rd, 2005, 08:52 PM
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Hello! You don't know me, I just recently joined but I just wanted to say I am sooo happy for you!!! You are a very amazing and brave person to make these desisions and be able to overcome your past. I have depression and Know how hard it can be and I am just SO excited for you!! Your baby is so lucky that you can do this for her (him?) Good luck!!!!!!!!
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