If one already owns a 3-in-1 seat and uses it RFing, it's perfectly safe. I would certainly purchase another convertible to RF to as close to 4 as possible since no 3-in-1 (except the Radian) allows for that.
What is wrong with the upright angle of the Diono? From many techs, I've heard that an upright angle is safER for older infants, toddlers, and preschoolers. Not sure what high speed travel has to do with the angle of the seat...
Your husband's article is severely lacking. What about combination seats? Some kids need that between the convertible and the booster. The Britax Marathon he featured is a great seat, but not good for tall babies or those with long torsoes. It is shorter than many other seats and outgrown around 3T shirts, not an ideal option if you want to rear face to 4. He also has the Graco Nautilus listed as a convertible, which it absolutely is not. It does not rear face and is NOT an option for a 1 yr old. The Marathon is not the safEST seat - there are no safety ratings. Seats either pass and are allowed to be sold in stores or fail and are not on the market. We don't know the the Marathon performed any better than a $40 Scenera.
Your husband's heart is in the right place, but there is a lot of misinformation on his articles.