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April 25th, 2014, 07:56 PM
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Hello Ladies,Just a little background...
I just turned 33 years old this month. I have been married for almost 9 years and have 2 beautiful children (Son age 7 and Daughter age 6 next month).


My husband and I are in a bit of a disagreement on if we should have one more child. I want another one and he does not. We aren't on any birth control and use the withdrawal method (I know it is not as reliable as condoms and others, but it has worked for us for a little over a year now). Anyway, I offered my husband this...


If he really doesn't want anymore children, than I told him to get a vasectomy. I said I will be more than happy to have my tubes tide if we have a third (both of my kids were C-sections so I would just op to have a 3rd C-Section and tubal ligation at the same time).


This sounds fair right? lol

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April 25th, 2014, 09:44 PM
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Oh and DH said he absolutely does not want a vasectomy.

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April 26th, 2014, 10:34 AM
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I think if he's the one who doesn't want more, he's the one who needs to have the surgical procedure.
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April 27th, 2014, 01:31 PM
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Update: After much talking (been discussing permanent BC for the past couple of months and possible baby #3 for the past year), my husband has agreed to baby #3. Looks like I will be TTC next year! I'm very excited!
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April 27th, 2014, 01:37 PM
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Awesome news.
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June 3rd, 2014, 07:44 AM
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Good Luck!
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June 18th, 2014, 08:13 AM
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That's always a touchy issue , WISH U the BEST
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