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August 22nd, 2008, 07:22 AM
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So here is my problem....My 2 step sons whom we have FULL custody of were allowed to go and spend a week with their mom....she took them to the beach and camping. I dropped them off at 8 am last friday....we were supposed to get them back at 8 am today...at least that is what i understood....DH and I have tried to call her cell phone since yesterday but it goes straight into her voicemail....except once there was a busy signal. And we don't even know where she is right now...( the reason she lost custody is that she took the kids to Florida without anyone knowing) We have talked to the kids but they say that they want to come home now and I was just wanting advice should I call the worker about it or wait??? Its 10:30 now and still haven't heard from her
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August 22nd, 2008, 07:24 AM
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I would call I dont like it when people think they are above the rules
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August 22nd, 2008, 07:40 AM
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I would call NOW! If she has skipped town the sooner they know the better.
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August 22nd, 2008, 07:40 AM
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I would definitely make a call because she is late, she didn't call you, and you can't get ahold of her.
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August 22nd, 2008, 07:43 AM
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Definitely call!!
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August 22nd, 2008, 07:55 AM
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I called and the worker is...OUT OF TOWN UNTIL MONDAY!!!!!!
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August 22nd, 2008, 07:57 AM
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they can't give you someone else in the meantime ? wow!
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August 22nd, 2008, 08:08 AM
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They gave me her supervisor but she hasn't called me back yet.
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August 22nd, 2008, 08:12 AM
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Call the police if you're not getting anywhere with the worker/supervisor.
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August 22nd, 2008, 08:24 AM
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I'm tepmted trust me but that will just get me in trouble wtih the worker....she is TOATALLY against me and my husband....I need parenting classes because Bailey had a hole in his underwear BUT her mother can take him INTO dairy Queen in his underwear and she jsut didn't understand that it embarrassed him......I can't stand those women.....
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August 22nd, 2008, 08:37 AM
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I would call NOW! If she has skipped town the sooner they know the better.[/b]
Ditto! I also ditto calling the police if you get nowhere with the social worker.
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August 22nd, 2008, 09:20 AM
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any news yet?
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August 22nd, 2008, 09:27 AM
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Social worker finally called she even went to her house and there is no one there but there isn't anyhting I can do until 5 pm this evening....the normal time that we pick up / drop off. I just knopw that I don't need this stress right now but I am so worried about Bailey and Kayson that I don't know what to do!!!
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August 22nd, 2008, 09:35 AM
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Hugs!! Hang in there!
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August 22nd, 2008, 10:09 AM
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at least you spoke with someone...make sure it is documented that you called
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August 22nd, 2008, 11:14 AM
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I guess I would call the police!!!
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August 22nd, 2008, 11:20 AM
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Oh wow sorry this is happening What a stressful situation. Hopefully she brings the kids back soon.

Like someone else said, make sure you document everything that happens.
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