[babysam]

....How hard was it to go to 3 kids and work outside the home? My DH and I are both lawyers, though my office is very family friendly. We are trying to decide whether to take the leap of faith for a third child and I'm pretty sure I have posted on every single board at JM just trying to get any insight I can. I want another baby so badly, for a million different reasons, but have some issues that are holding me back, too. For instance, I'm 36, have PCOS (so I'd have to use Clomid), 2 of the kids would have to share a room for a few years, we'd need a bigger car, sometimes I'm not as patient as I would like with the 2 kids that we have right now, and because the schools in our area are not great, we want to send our kids to private school (3 would be an enormous financial hit). Does anyone have insight that could help? All the moms I know IRL that have more than 2 kids, stay at home. Is it possible to have 3, work full time and give everything to everyone that needs it?

[mommy2Breana+Brandon]

It is possible to work full time with kids. I only have 2 you would have to count in the cost of daycare and all.


Good luck with your decision