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July 17th, 2008, 02:03 PM
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**sigh** My optimism is always so short lived

I was running dates through my head and realized that b/c I have to wait 5 more days before starting Provera, then have to take it for 7 days, and THEN wait for AF to show, that the EARLIEST I could have a baby would be **MAY**2009

That is soooooooo freakin' depressing!!! DH and I have been TTC since 2006-not to mention that the boys' 1st birthday is NEXT month!!! I was so hoping to atleast be pregnant again by now!! I feel like such a failure, and with every month that passes, I get more fearful that I will never be a mom again

Sorry to be such a downer, but I'm just sooooooo sad today!!


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July 17th, 2008, 02:24 PM
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I'm sorry Brandi! I really hope this next cycle works for you! it is so hard wait for provera and than AF too
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July 17th, 2008, 02:36 PM
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Thanks Sarah
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July 17th, 2008, 02:51 PM
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I am sorry to hear you are down today. Hope this next cycle is it for you! Good Luck!!!
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July 17th, 2008, 03:05 PM
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scooch over Brandi and I will sit with you and we can be a couple of sad sacks together. I wish we didn't have to go through this. You should have 2 wonderfull little twins and I should have my 2 babies. It just sucks so bad and I wish I could just punch the snot out of someone till they fill as bad as I do. I really do feel that way. I hope you get your wish this next cycle.
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July 17th, 2008, 03:31 PM
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July 17th, 2008, 06:42 PM
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Brandi. I have a good feeling about this next cycle for you.
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July 17th, 2008, 07:05 PM
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Hi Brandi. There is no doubt about it - infertility and loss just sucks. We all need to have a "pity party" and mope and rage. I have mine regularly. You are not a failure - far from it. You are a strong woman who has come through horrible events and are still putting one foot in front of the other. Blah blah blah.


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July 17th, 2008, 07:40 PM
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I am so sorry you are feeling down..I pray that this cycle is your bfp!!! Ttc is really hard...Hugs..
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July 18th, 2008, 04:51 AM
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Brandi... Hang in there sweetie!
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July 18th, 2008, 06:47 AM
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I'm sorry chickie! I was doing the math today and it made me so sad to know that we will be shooting for April 2011..thats sooo deperessing
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July 18th, 2008, 09:03 AM
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Brandi ~ I can't begin to tell you how much I understand what you are going through. Seriously, those 2 yrs we were ttc were the longest 2 yrs of my life! Know this, there are going to be down days but after you get that BFP, your life will forever be different. The days are numbered, think of it that way...a countdown. You will have that precious baby/ies. Please know I am always lurking & checking in on you. Chin up! Miracles DO HAPPEN!
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July 18th, 2008, 09:45 AM
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Brandi, honey, I'm so sorry! I wish I could take this away for you. You really deserve your and I hope that this next cycle is the one for you. Then (Astrid is completely right) those nine months will fly by for you and you will soak up every glorious, beautiful moment of it.

Hang in there, sweetie. You're in our prayers. We luv ya!!
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July 18th, 2008, 10:43 AM
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Thank you so much girls It always seems that during my darkest hours, you all are the light that helps rejuvenate my spirit and motivate me to keep moving forward!! Love you all!!
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July 18th, 2008, 11:12 AM
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I am so sorry Brandi
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July 18th, 2008, 12:34 PM
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thinking of you hun with secial prayers!!!
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July 19th, 2008, 01:04 PM
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Hey!! I hope you are feeling better by now. I was MIA for a couple days so I am just now seeing your post. I really hope you know you aren't a failure. You are the strongest woman I have ever met and I wish I had the strength you have. I know you will get your BFP and your little baby that you want so badly. We all will!!! I know God has a baby in store for you and I hope that you get it soon!!! I love ya!!
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July 19th, 2008, 05:02 PM
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I'm looking at June 09 at the earliest..... It's horrible to know I'll have to wait at least that long to have a baby safe and sound in my arms..... I know I won't feel ruely good till I can really hold my baby, safe and sound.

I'm just hoping I'll be pregnant before my edd in november.... I'll be so much more heartbroken if I'm not....
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July 19th, 2008, 08:26 PM
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I know somewhat how you feel. It's almost been a year since I got pregnant last time and I never thought I'd still be waiting on my next BFP. And in some ways it feels like I am even further away from getting my baby, if that makes sense.

But I KNOW logically that every day that goes by, I am one day closer to holding my baby in my arms. And you are too sweetie.

You are not a failure, you're doing everything you can and that's all you can do.

I truly hope it happens for you SOON.

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