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July 29th, 2008, 07:12 AM
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So I am loosing hope this cycle I have been having sporatic AF cramps fior the past few days. Today is 7 days past transfer and still BFN. The only thing that is giving me hope is that the cramps may be implantation. I don't knoe anymore. I am going crazy in this 2ww. I know 7pt is still early but I keep thinking of last times failed cylce.
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July 29th, 2008, 07:22 AM
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I am sorry for you feeling so down!! I hope it all leads up to a BFP for you!! My hpt with my #2 didnt come up + until I was already 7 weeks prego...So it might just take a little while for you to get a +!! Good Luck!
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July 29th, 2008, 07:42 AM
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I know what you mean about the "hopeless" feeling

I just *HOPE* that it's still too early and you get your much DESERVED BFP in a few short days!!!
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July 29th, 2008, 07:47 AM
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I dont know much about the timing side of IVF but I do know that when I was pregnant I had AF cramps. I actually waited til AF was 25 days late to take a test because of the cramps..I was so sure the second I spend the money on the test she'd come.

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July 29th, 2008, 08:04 AM
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I'm sorry. It's hard to hope when we've been disappointed before.

I hope it's just too early for you and you'll get your BFP.
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July 29th, 2008, 08:25 AM
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I know exactly what you're going through. We've had 4 failed IVF attempts (2 fresh, 2 frozen). It's hard to keep your hopes up when you have felt the pain of it not working in the past.

But, keep in mind that you are only the equivalent of 10 dpo today. That's still very early. I think you're still in the game. I'm hoping for the best for you!
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July 29th, 2008, 08:35 AM
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Hopefully it was just too early!

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July 29th, 2008, 09:15 AM
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I'm sorry you're feeling hopeless. I know that feeling all too well and it sucks. Hopefully you're wrong and it's just too early to know anything.
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July 29th, 2008, 05:00 PM
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I hope you are wrong and that it's the embies burrowing in for the long hall.
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July 29th, 2008, 05:07 PM
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Honey, I am sorry. The 2ww is cruel and it gets harder every single cycle. I really, truly want to read about a for you in a couple of days! Tell your embies that for me, kk?

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July 30th, 2008, 04:38 AM
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Hope the cramping is implantion. Good Luck!

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July 30th, 2008, 06:31 AM
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I got my first faint BFP's at 8DPT . . . this last time I went out and get a FRER that morning bc the Equate that morning showed a BFN and I KNEW that wasn't right!! but it was suuuper faint - don't worry, you're not out of the game yet!!!

Have you tested today? What brand are you using? Hoping to see that + today!!!
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July 30th, 2008, 09:54 AM
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Hang in there!!!
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July 30th, 2008, 10:39 AM
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I got my first faint BFP's at 8DPT . . . this last time I went out and get a FRER that morning bc the Equate that morning showed a BFN and I KNEW that wasn't right!! but it was suuuper faint - don't worry, you're not out of the game yet!!!

Have you tested today? What brand are you using? Hoping to see that + today!!![/b]

Yup I tested today and used a FRER and still BFN Today is 8DPT. I know by now it is probably a failed cycle b/c something would of showed up by now.
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TTC since 2/2007
HSG done in 12/2007 and showed blockage of tubes
3/2008- First IVF=BFN
Starting 2ND IVF cycle in June- Hoping for a 2009 Baby!!!!
6/25/08- starting lupron injections
7/7/08- suppression check
7/7/08- start Gonal-F
7/17/08- trigger shot
7/19/08- retrieval (please fertilize eggies): 7/22/08- transferred 2 embies HCG scheduled for 8/4
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July 30th, 2008, 11:28 AM
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There is still hope! And I am as pessimistic as it gets, LOL! I would test again Friday. 11DPO is soooo early, even in the IVF world.
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July 30th, 2008, 03:50 PM
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