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January 25th, 2009, 07:09 AM
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I'm not very happy this morning. I started spotting this AM, right on time, and AF will probably be here by tonight, or tomorrow. My cycles are boringly predictable.

So I guess our 2nd IUI was a bust.

I'm just so numb right now. I wasn't feeling too hopeful this month, but then the last week or so, expectations started to grip me and I started thinking, "who knows, maybe it did happen..."

And then I started thinking about having an October baby and how great it would be, I would have been due right around my mom's birthday on October 4th....

SIGH.

I don't think we will do another IUI round.

I am going to call my RE's office on Monday and set up our IVF consultation. I am ready to get the ball moving on that.

Originally, our RE had said let's try 2-3 rounds of Clomid + IUI, but I just don't WANT to do another IUI. I want to move on b/c my gut tells me IVF is what's going to have to be for us.

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January 25th, 2009, 08:38 AM
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I'm so sorry. It's so hard to get your hopes up (even though you try not to) and have to deal with the let-fall of yet another bfn. But, at least you have a "plan of attack" for next cycle with the consultation and all-I hope that makes you feel somewhat better.

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January 25th, 2009, 09:57 AM
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I am so sorry. It is so painful when that witch shows up. You are in my T&P.
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January 25th, 2009, 10:23 AM
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January 25th, 2009, 11:03 AM
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It never gets any easier, does it? You think after awhile, seeing BFN after BFN would stop hurting so much. It doesn't.
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January 25th, 2009, 11:37 AM
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I'm so sorry...BFNs have a way of getting to us no matter how prepared we think we are to see them. I'm glad you are going to follow through with your gut instincts and look into IVF...I know it is probably a scary step, but if your heart says to move on, then that is the right thing to do.

Keep us updated about your appointment so we can send good vibes your way!
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January 25th, 2009, 02:03 PM
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I'm so sorry..
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January 25th, 2009, 04:26 PM
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So Sorry!
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January 25th, 2009, 05:53 PM
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I am so sorry!!!
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January 25th, 2009, 05:59 PM
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I'm so sorry. I was very hopeful for you. I know how hard it is to be let down over and over again.

i think you know what is best for you and your situation.. so on to IVF!
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January 25th, 2009, 06:00 PM
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January 25th, 2009, 10:04 PM
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So sorry to hear about the BFN...KUP on the consult with the RE!!!
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