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  #1  
October 21st, 2009, 06:38 AM
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and it's BFN, as usual.

I'm tired of this game. I'll test daily, probably, from here on. I keep telling myself that old cliche: It's too soon... but I see so many charts on FF that have IUI gals testing BFP on 12 DPO, so I am quite discouraged.

I don't know what my body is gearing up to do either. I just can't read it this cycle.
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October 21st, 2009, 06:54 AM
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I'm so sorry about the BFN.
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October 21st, 2009, 07:01 AM
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So sorry for you BFN... Eggs implant at all different times, so you may not be out! There are many charts that got a pos after 12 days also of FF. I am not enjoying this game either!
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October 21st, 2009, 07:28 AM
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October 21st, 2009, 07:35 AM
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I'm going to cheer for you I didn't test at 12dpiui....but I did at 11dpiui and it was a stark white FRER!!! I'm not even sure if I would have tested + at 12dpiui.

The hardest part is trying not to compare yourself to everyone else! HUGS!!!
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October 21st, 2009, 09:03 AM
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Sorry about the BFN! They are always so hard to see, no matter what our expectations.

(((HUGS))) and try to still think +++! 12 diui is still on the early side!
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October 21st, 2009, 10:33 AM
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Here's hoping that BFP is right around the corner!!!
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October 21st, 2009, 10:58 AM
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I'm so sorry! I hope it is too early.
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October 22nd, 2009, 11:30 AM
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Did you test again today???????
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October 22nd, 2009, 11:47 AM
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Hoping it is too early and that you'll off to a DDC very soon.
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October 22nd, 2009, 11:57 AM
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(((HUGS))) This is what I do to cheer myself up when I am testing. I go over to FF's chart gallery and find charts that had negatives before positives or late bfps. You would be surprised at how many charts don't get bfps at 12dpo. I looked at a ton and you can see plenty that clearly o'd when their chart is marked and didn't get a bfp at 12dpo.

I always tell myself that I am going to be the one that adds the chart to the gallery that will cheer someone else up one day.
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October 22nd, 2009, 01:45 PM
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Thanks, Patty. I did the same thing because today, I got another bfn. I don't know what to make of these "signs" or lack thereof, so all I can do is wait each day out and continue to test.

I'm really disappointed, as you all know the feeling. I'm trying to budget for another IUI cycle and my DH's not real happy with the IUI thing, but he'll go for 2 more cycles if we need it, then we're done and back to trying naturally.

It stinks and I'm trying not to think about it.
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October 23rd, 2009, 07:22 AM
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October 23rd, 2009, 09:08 AM
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Was just still thinking about you! I hope you still get a BFP and your little egg was lazy to implant=)
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October 23rd, 2009, 10:46 AM
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Sorry it's a BFN!
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October 23rd, 2009, 02:54 PM
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Thanks, ladies!

It's a bfn still today. I started spotting, and I am pretty sure AF is just around the corner. Spotting is kind of heavy, maybe like a very, very light CD 1, but it's so dang hard to tell.

I had the beta today just to be sure, but I can tell you what it says.

Just in case, though, I wish I had a miracle announcement to post tomorrow, but dont' hold your breath.

I'll see what my RE says for this coming cycle. I want to try again. We're only going to do 2 more IUI cycles (maybe 3 if I can talk DH into the 3rd, but budget may say otherwise) and I hope they're in a row because we want to improve our chances for a summer baby. Otherwise, we're done with the RE and will just take our miniscule chances on our own.

I really pray it doesn't come to that.
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October 23rd, 2009, 06:01 PM
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So sorry! I was hoping it worked for you.
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