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December 7th, 2009, 03:42 PM
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How long until we are allowed to have sex? I called the Dr and was SHOCKED by the nurses answer so I will ask the dr as well. The retrevial was yesterday and I still hurt, so I am not doing anything yet.

But the dr told me 9 weeks after the transfer. Is that true? I can't believe we should have to wait that long.
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December 7th, 2009, 03:56 PM
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My RE told us at the retrieval that we were not to have sex until further notice, so we're still waiting I'm going to ask on Thursday at our u/s, because we're both getting a little desperate!
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December 7th, 2009, 04:05 PM
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well yeah because we were abstaining before because of his sample. But we were able to swueeze in an extra one because we were told two different days that we had to empty him.
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December 7th, 2009, 05:44 PM
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My Doc advised no sex until at least after beta day.. then after that it's when you feel comfortable doing it.
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December 7th, 2009, 06:06 PM
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How long until we are allowed to have sex? I called the Dr and was SHOCKED by the nurses answer so I will ask the dr as well. The retrevial was yesterday and I still hurt, so I am not doing anything yet.

But the dr told me 9 weeks after the transfer. Is that true? I can't believe we should have to wait that long.
Oh gosh I did not know that! I guess I am going to have to give dh lots of loving time now. I will have to ask my doctor about this when we get to that.
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December 7th, 2009, 06:44 PM
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We just did clomid and TI, but our RE doesn't say you can't do anything in the 2ww. But he discourages it. Our OB put us on restriction till 12 weeks because of our fertility problems. I didn't get my sex drive back till last week(15 weeks)... But the Saturday(14 weeks) before I was put on pelvic rest...
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December 7th, 2009, 09:12 PM
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9 weeks?! That doesn't make any sense! We haven't done anything since retrieval, but that's our own personal choice, we were not given any restrictions at all. (Just my paranoia, and then my nausea.)
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December 7th, 2009, 09:36 PM
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well the nurse is who told me that, so I talked to the dr later about our eggs issue, and he said to wait until at least the BFP. HE said we can today and tomorrow but then the transfer is Wednesday and we have to wait. But I am still sore from the retrevial so I am not really interested right now.

DH was freaking out because he is supposed to deploy shortly after that 9 week date
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