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December 14th, 2009, 04:00 AM
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December 14th, 2009, 05:51 AM
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Are you sure????

I thought the same thing and then the next day I got my It was just IB

Hope the same goes for you!!!
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December 14th, 2009, 06:23 AM
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Oh frick.
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December 14th, 2009, 06:40 AM
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Oh, Kari! I'm so sorry this is the case. Truly. I was hoping it could be a miracle IUI, even though you weren't really confident in it. 9 days!? after clomid? hmmm... maybe Brandi's right
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December 14th, 2009, 06:45 AM
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Ditto the other gals. Are you SURE?

Remember my story last week? I was totally sure AF was on her way 3 days early! I spotted for three days before I finally tested, and it was

As I remember...YOU gave me a gentle shove into testing...do you need me to return the favor?
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December 14th, 2009, 07:26 AM
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Ugh! I'm sorry... that sucks. What's a typical LP for you? If its super short, maybe you should take a test anyway. Or take a temp to see if it's "period low".
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December 14th, 2009, 08:18 AM
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Oh man, that bites. I hope it's a mistake. I bleed for about an hour 2 days before I got my BFP with DS#1. If it is true AF I'm sorry.
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December 14th, 2009, 08:18 AM
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More I'm sorry, Kari.
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December 14th, 2009, 09:35 AM
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I sincerely hope that you're wrong, Kari. If not, though, I'm gonna give that witch a piece of my mind
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December 14th, 2009, 01:16 PM
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December 14th, 2009, 01:22 PM
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I'm so so sorry Kari. This is just so flipping unfair. But I'm an optomist now. I had what I thought was AF at 13dpr-15dpr and it was just heavy implantation bleeding or something. So maybe this is not AF after all and although I know it may be impossible for you to have hope right now, I'm going to have a ton of hope for you and send lots of prayers your way.
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December 14th, 2009, 01:25 PM
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oh that sucks. That happened to me when I did my IUI, and I was onl progesterone as well. I am so sorry
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December 14th, 2009, 05:27 PM
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Yeah I'm pretty sure this is the real deal. It started last night when I put in my suppository, I had some blood on my finger. So I wiped good and there was more. I took out the suppository and put on a pad for the night to see what would happen. This morning I woke up there was almost nothing on the pad but when I wiped I had quite a bit of bright red blood and some stringy clotty stuff. Sorry if this is TMI... but of all people, you ladies will understand. Today I changed my tampon three times, all three times it was decently full. I'm pretty sure this is AF. I tested at 8dpiui and the trigger was gone, it was very negative. Haven't tested after that, and don't think I will. This would be REALLY HEAVY for implantation bleeding. I have never had it before, so I would have no clue what to look for. Today my boobs were very painful, sharp pains through my sides to my nips. I think it's the last of the progesterone leaving my system.

I'm feeling pretty defeated but I know that I will have my family some day soon. We are still moving forward with our adoption plans and are eager to get our home study scheduled for early next year. I just can't wait to finally be a mommy, and I don't have to get pregnant to do that. I want to start our family. I pray that we'll be approved and matched and have a baby in 2010, but I know that sometimes it takes longer than that. We'll see. Then once we have started our family I'm sure we'll revisit the idea of MA and probably use IVF to try and add to our family again. I hope you don't mind me still hanging around. Even though I'm not really doing any MA at the moment, I still want to keep tabs on your ladies and offer my support.

Thank you ladies for all your help, love, support, kind words... I don't know what I would do without you all. If for some reason this bleeding lightens up I will let you know, but I'm not gonna be holding my breath.

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December 14th, 2009, 05:44 PM
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Kari!! I wish this was it for you, but selfishly I'm also happy that you and I will be "cycle buddies" in our adoption process and get our babies in 2010

God has a plan! Trust in Him!! He never fails---He prevails!!!
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December 14th, 2009, 05:48 PM
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Kari!! I wish this was it for you, but selfishly I'm also happy that you and I will be "cycle buddies" in our adoption process and get our babies in 2010

God has a plan! Trust in Him!! He never fails---He prevails!!!
You are too sweet... I'm excited too!!! I know this will be quite the journey and I'm so happy that we'll have each other every step of the way!
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December 14th, 2009, 07:37 PM
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aww..Hugs..im soo sorry! hope you feel better!
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December 15th, 2009, 06:50 AM
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I'm so sad for you, but happy that you can leave this stress behind for now and work on getting your baby! PLEASE don't leave, heck I haven't and I've been pregnant now for months! It would be too sad not to see you here!
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Ugh. That is NOT what I was hoping to read when I opened this thread. I am so sorry, Kari. I wish I could hug you in person.
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December 15th, 2009, 01:51 PM
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Oh Kari, what a roller coaster you've been on. You WILL be a mom though-no matter how or when it happens. You are passionate enough about it to MAKE it happen. It sounds like you can really start getting excited about this adoption though...and like you said, you can always come back to m/a when the time is right. I'm thinking of you and always hoping for the best...
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