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December 18th, 2009, 09:58 AM
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Well the ultrasound did not go well. As soon as the doctor ran the wand over my stomach, I could see. My uterus was empty. She ran it back a few times, before I finally said: do you see anything? No she said. She then performed a vaginal ultrasound and located the baby in my left tube. Everything seemed like a dream. At one point I thought to myself "wake up, just wake up." After we went and met with our doctor and went over the options. But there weren't really any options. As we were told, we were lucky because they caught it so quick. The fetus was measuring 1.6 cm and since I'm only 5 and a half weeks, they are hopeful that surgery will not be required. The gave me the first two shots of methotrexate, and I go back for blood work on Monday and then Christmas day. Depending on my levels then, a second set of shots may be required. My beta today was down from 400, to 220. So I was told that was also a good sign.

I'm pretty numb right now. This all seems so unreal. Thank you all for your thoughts and prayers. It just went so fast. I can't beleive it's all over.
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December 18th, 2009, 10:02 AM
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Addie, I am so heartbroken for you. I wish there was something that I could say that could just take this pain away from you. I'm am so deeply sorry for what you and DH are having to go through. Please know that I'm thinking about you, and praying for this to resolve on it's own so you won't have to go through surgery as well.

I'm just so sorry. So, so sorry!!!

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December 18th, 2009, 10:05 AM
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((hugs)) o no! I am so sorry
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December 18th, 2009, 10:10 AM
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Oh no Addie I am so so sorry. When I read your post earlier I was concerned about your pregnancy being ectopic based on some of the symptoms you described but I am so ultra paranoid about ectopics that I didn't want to say anything. I feel so terrible for you. I am so very sorry you are having to go through this.

(((((((((((((((HUGE HUGS))))))))))))))))))))

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December 18th, 2009, 10:12 AM
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When I saw the title of this thread, my heart just sank. This is so not fair that you have to go through this, and I wish there was something I could do to change this outcome. You and DH will be in my thoughts and prayers.

I'm so, so sorry.
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December 18th, 2009, 10:19 AM
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I'm so sorry Addie I know how you feel when you say you're numb and that you can't believe it's over....I felt (and still do) that way about Tres. If it's any comfort, I can tell you that it is a good thing that this was discovered so early. That was one thing I was thankful with Tres after all I had been through with the boys. As mothers, we are instantly deeply in love with our unborn, so the pain is equal, I believe, whether things like this happen earlier or later in pregnancy. However, the healing process (from my experience) is easier in situations like this. I pray that God gives you the strength to make it through this. I know He will. He loves you and sent you this baby for a purpose, and a reason that may not make sense to you right now, but in time, you will know why.

We all love you Addie, and again, I'm so so so sorry
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December 18th, 2009, 10:24 AM
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When I saw the title of this thread, my heart just sank.
These are the words that I'm looking for! I'm so sorry
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December 18th, 2009, 10:45 AM
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My heart broke when i read this.. Addie I am so sorry hun...There is nothing I can say... If you need to talk pm me..
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December 18th, 2009, 10:47 AM
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Addie I am so sorry. Loosing a baby is so very hard no matter how long they were with you. I felt numb and heart broken for weeks after we lost "Baby Blueberry"
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December 18th, 2009, 10:59 AM
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I know there are no words to comfort you. I'm sorry you have to go though this, my heart hurts for you and you DH.
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December 18th, 2009, 11:02 AM
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Addie, I am so sorry... My heart goes out to you.
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December 18th, 2009, 11:09 AM
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Oh no, oh no. Addie, I am so very sorry. HUGE (((HUGS))) to you, my friend. Things like this just don't make sense. I am thinking about you and praying for you...please know we are all here for you!

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December 18th, 2009, 11:14 AM
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I am so so very sorry Addie. This just isn't fair. Please PM me if you would like to talk as we are both going thru the same thing right now. Sending you tons of hugs and kisses!
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December 18th, 2009, 12:18 PM
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I am so so sorry.. HUGS
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December 18th, 2009, 01:17 PM
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oh Addie I am so sorry. I will be honest though, I didn't know that you could have an ectopic pregnancy with IVF, that is new to me.
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December 18th, 2009, 01:45 PM
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Oh no! I'm so sorry and aching for you right now. I am thinking of you...
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December 18th, 2009, 01:50 PM
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Oh Addie..... I am so very sorry. My heart is hurting for you.
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December 18th, 2009, 02:49 PM
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I'm so sorry!!!

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December 18th, 2009, 03:19 PM
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December 18th, 2009, 06:44 PM
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^@$^$^#$^%&%$##@#@!!!!!!

I get nervous when people have low betas, but I am just so so angry that this had to happen to you. I'm so sorry Addie. I know there's no words.
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