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  #1  
February 19th, 2010, 05:03 PM
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I can't believe I held out this long but I had my first breakdown in 13 months of TTC tonight. I'm PMSing and sick and...lost it. Poor DH didn't know what to do Stupid Facebook, I think I should boycott it!! Two pregnancy announcements in one sitting. One of them just had a baby less than 8 months ago and found out today she's having a boy. In other words she got pregnant a few months after she had her first. It's so frustrating that it happens so easily for some and then you have women like all of us who try and try and fill our bodies full of all kinds of drugs, whether it's for our first or 5th.
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February 19th, 2010, 07:04 PM
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I agree about stupid facebook I rarely go on it anymore cause I got tired of reading and seeing people's status's and pictures of u/s and finding out they weren't even trying. I had one girl tell me they went on their honeymoon, had sex once and tada got pregnant!! I politely smiled and said congratulations.

If this was your first freak out after 13 months that's pretty good. Anyways, just wanted to say I understand what your feeling. Good luck and one day you can post all over facebook about your BFP
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February 19th, 2010, 10:15 PM
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I'm really impressed that this was your first breakdown! I tend to break down at least once per month (and today was that day). I'm AMAZED that you haven't... you are much stronger than I am. But we will be those women posting on facebook someday.
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February 19th, 2010, 11:25 PM
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I am so sorry! Facebook can be a horrid place sometimes! I hide my feeling of infertility a lot because I dont want to face them so i havent had many real breakdowns yet either but when I have them they are bad. I am really sorry and hope you get your BFP soon!!! ((HUGS))
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February 20th, 2010, 07:12 AM
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I understand your meltdown girl. New Year's Eve, 2007, I went to a house party where EVERY girl that I know proceeds to tell me they're pregnant (as we'd been trying for almost a year). Just add tequila and Kari was a crying, melting down idiot. Hang in there girl, I did get my BFP just a few months after that =)
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February 20th, 2010, 07:54 AM
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I totally get it...I remember my first big break down too. It can be so hard to see other people getting pregnant. For me, I always struggled with the women who got pregnant AFTER I started trying ... ie they just got married and Boom! Pregnant.

It really does not seem to make sense. Hoping it does, in time, for you. Hang in there.
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February 20th, 2010, 08:47 AM
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I'm sorry about your meltdown, and it sucks that it comes with this territory. Hang in there!!!
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February 20th, 2010, 09:44 AM
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I'm sorry! Believe me, I've had more than my fair share of meltdowns! Most people think I don't want children b/c I prefer it that way. I have to believe we will be the ones posting adorable pictures soon!
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February 20th, 2010, 02:44 PM
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Thanks ladies. I feel better today. AF showed about 45 minutes after my breakdown so I blame her
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06/2004 - Lap for endo and cysts
08/2006 - Lap for endo and cysts
02/2010 - Lap for endo, cysts, and hydrosalpinx repair
02/2011 - Lap for endo, cysts, and RSO
12/2011 - TAH and LSO
5/2012 - Lap for adhesions
4/2013 - Lap for adhesions
Stage IV endometriosis, sever adenomyosis, PCOS, IC
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February 20th, 2010, 05:28 PM
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**Hugs** to you. I'm glad you feel better today!
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