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  #1  
September 13th, 2010, 01:11 PM
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The doctor called me today because they had a cancellation.I went in for my ultrasound and the pregnancies are non viable. There is no heartbeat in one or signs of cardiac beginnings and no real growth since last time. For the other, it's the same as last time.

I go back on Thursday to confirm.

I can't believe this. This is so cruel. I'm not sure I can function right now.
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September 13th, 2010, 01:14 PM
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Oh My..Addie..im soo very sorry! Im at a loss for words...big huge i will be praying for you!
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September 13th, 2010, 01:17 PM
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oh addie i am so, so sorry. sending you the biggest that you can imagine.
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September 13th, 2010, 01:17 PM
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I'm so sorry
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September 13th, 2010, 01:19 PM
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And please please please, do not turn off your siggies. It will make me feel worse.
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September 13th, 2010, 01:20 PM
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There are no words to express how sorry I am. (((((HUGS)))))
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September 13th, 2010, 01:22 PM
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I'm so sorry addie!
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September 13th, 2010, 01:27 PM
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Oh sweetie... there are no words. I'm so sorry.
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September 13th, 2010, 01:45 PM
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I'm going to be off line for a bit. I am really having a hard time and I feel like I want to disappear. I already told work I couldn't be in this week. I just wish I did not exist. I don't want to be in this life right now. I wish I was strong and could say I trusted in God and that I know there is a reason for this, but I don't think that. I don't believe that. Life has been so cruel lately. I don't understand it.
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September 13th, 2010, 01:46 PM
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Oh Addie I am so so sorry! Words can't even begin to express to you how badly I wish I could be there for you!
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September 13th, 2010, 01:52 PM
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I am so sorry Please take care of yourself- dealing with a loss is so hard. I am sending you huge hugs
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September 13th, 2010, 01:56 PM
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I'm so so sorry, Addie. Words can't even described how sad this makes me for you and your hubby.

Take all the time you need.
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September 13th, 2010, 01:56 PM
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I am so sorry.. It is cruel. I wish for amazing things for you.. Again, I am so sorry.. Hugs..
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September 13th, 2010, 01:58 PM
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no this is not fair... I am so sorry this is happenening! I hope maybe when you go back you get a miracle...

Take care of yourself ok!
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After years of trying, 2 years of fertility meds, multiple surgeries, blood draws and needle sticks, some awful pre-IVF complications, and endometriosis and PCOS,
We are done TTC. Praying for peace as we accept this...
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September 13th, 2010, 02:05 PM
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Addie I just hate that this happened..its not right. I'm incredibly sorry.
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September 13th, 2010, 02:07 PM
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NO NO NO Addie! I'm so sorry! I have no words! I wish I could give you a HUGE hug
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September 13th, 2010, 02:21 PM
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Addie, I am so, so very sorry to read your update. I am thinking about you.
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September 13th, 2010, 02:31 PM
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What?!? I am so angry and sad for you, Addie. I wish there was something I could do besides send lots of hugs...infertility is so cruel.
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September 13th, 2010, 02:54 PM
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Addie... I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my baby 4 days ago and understand exactly how you feel. We are here for you, I understand your pain and so wish I could take it away. ((Hugs)) xoxoxoxoxo
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September 13th, 2010, 03:03 PM
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HUGE HUGE HUGS. Addie I am so so sorry for your loss. I am praying and praying so hard that the other one survives beyond a miracle of miracles hon.
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