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September 19th, 2010, 03:59 PM
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Hey all, haven't been around the boards for a while. We got a puppy. He's very cute but a lot of work! So this was my 2nd round of clomid, my first ovidril shot, and my...i lost count...iui and ugh...yet another BFN! I don't know how much more I can take and my DH just doesn't get it. My friends are somewhat supportive but I got annoyed that one told me I needed to talk to my dr. I wanted to say, how about an i'm sorry, how are you doing or man that sucks, but I said nothing and then cried some more. Sorry for the ranting, but only you ladies can truly understand! Hope all is going well with you. Hugs, Sue
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September 19th, 2010, 04:37 PM
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I'm sorry you had to see yet ANOTHER BFN!
That is SO frustrating! I hope soon you get your BFP!!
Congrats on your new furbaby, though!
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September 19th, 2010, 05:37 PM
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I'm so sorry. I know there aren't any words that make you feel better, but you're right, we do understand. Although, I think furbabies understand better than anyone and give the best loving when we need it.
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September 19th, 2010, 06:15 PM
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LOL, yes Lindsey that is quite true though if you said that before we got Riley I would have thought you were nuts!
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September 19th, 2010, 11:18 PM
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oh thats nice to hear u got a puppy..they sure take ur time n its great when ttcing to kill time intead of obsessing over daysn so forth..!!! im sorry u had to go thru another bfn..!!!! i do hope u get ur bfp really soon..!!! i hate this journey...!!! but still we know there will be light at the end of this dark miserable tunnel.!!!
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September 19th, 2010, 11:34 PM
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I am sorry about the BFN. It does blow...but I try to remember when the BFP does come it will be sweet....and you WILL get a BFP! Keep your head up!
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September 20th, 2010, 03:43 AM
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, Sorry about the BFN...
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September 20th, 2010, 06:29 AM
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Awww, hun.... I'm sorry about the BFN and about not having the support you need IRL. I really hope that little puppy of yours helps raise your spirits a bit!

Share pics of your new furbaby... I'd love to see them!

And keep us posted on your next cycle!
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September 20th, 2010, 07:24 AM
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I'm so sorry you got a BFN
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September 20th, 2010, 07:33 AM
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I'm so sorry about the BFN. We do understand... Actually I think that we more than understand - I know that I actually feel pain myself everytime someone on this board gets a BFN or other bad news. Please know that we are here for you.

Congratulations on the new furbaby! Being able to cuddle up and cry to my pup when I am feeling beaten up by this whole process has been a huge help to me! Plus, he can always make me laugh even when I'm feeling really sad.
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Cycles 1-12 = BFN
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Cycle #16 -21 - Natural Cycles, started acupuncture and chinese herbs - BFN
Cycle #22 - IVF Clinical Trial. Cycle Cancelled.
Cycle #23 - Minimal Stimulation IVF #1 - 2 eggs retrieved, fertilized and frozen on Day 3.
Cycle #24 - Mini-IVF #2 - 2 eggs retrieved, fertilized and frozen as expanded blasts on Day 5.
Cycle #25 - Mini-IVF #3 - 4 eggs retrieved (two mature and 2 immature), one egg made it to blast and was frozen. Five snowbabies in all!! Hysteroscopy.
Cycle #26 Single Frozen Embryo Transfer. BFP and then miscarriage
Cycle #27 - Single Frozen Embryo Transfer. BFP!!
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September 20th, 2010, 08:54 AM
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I'm sorry about the bfn.
But for a new puppy you will get so much love from him and Please share pic's of your new furbaby.
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September 20th, 2010, 05:13 PM
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Oh man I am sorry. This is one reason after failed clomid, and IUI with injections I chose to go to IVF because I just couldn't not be pregnant anymore. And we are lucky it worked right away.
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September 20th, 2010, 06:42 PM
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Thanks ladies you are the best!!!!!!!!!!!
I lost the cable for my camara when I moved that's why I never uploaded any pics...but as soon as I get a new one I will post some pics!
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September 21st, 2010, 08:42 AM
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I'm so sorry. I know how that feels. . No matter how much you "prepare" yourself for a BFN, they always hurt a bit more than the last one. Agh, it's so frustrating. I know we will all get our BFPs....Just would LOVE to know when. :-/ Hahaha HUGS HUGS HUGS, Hang in there.
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