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  #1  
September 27th, 2010, 10:36 PM
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Location: Buffalo, NY
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My hubby and I aren't in a really good place right now and we've decided to take a break from TTC. The last 9 months we've dealt with moving to a new city, family issues, new jobs, new schools, some non-ttc health issues, and DD learning/developmental issues in addition to all the infertility stuff. We're exhausted and it's affecting our marriage and LIFE.

Ladies, you've all been so fantastic. So supportive and postive. I've been able to share my thoughts, fears, excitment and hope with you all and hope to do again sometime really soon.

I will keep praying for everyone to get their BFP or adoption successes very soon. I know it's an amazing journey and am still hopefull. Just need a little break to focus on myself and my family.


Talk to you all soon
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TTC 4 years
Married almost 7 years
DD 5years old

3 beautiful in heaven

6/08 miscarriage 7 weeks
10/08 ectopic- surgery saved tube
5/09 ectopic pregnancy

4/10 IUI w/ inj. #1 Menopur BFN
6/10 IUI w/ inj. #2 300 Follistrim BFN
7/10 IUI w/ inj. #3 300 Follistrim BFN
8/4/10 IUI w/ inj. #4 300 Follistrim BFN
8/30/10 IUI w/inj. #5 300 Follistrim and 300 Gonal-F BFN
10/2011- successful lap to remove mild endometriosis
11/5/11-IUI w/ inj. #6 300 Menopur BFN
11/11-Femara w/ IUI #7 STILL WAITING!!
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September 28th, 2010, 06:19 AM
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Location: Minnesota
Posts: 8,103
It sounds like you are in a very good place right now, and you are right to step back and take a break if it's needed. Thank you for sharing your journey with us, and if you feel up to it, please pop back in and update us on how things are going for you!

I wish you nothing but the best, and who knows. Maybe once you get everything sorted out in your life... a BFP will just fall right into place.
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  #3  
September 28th, 2010, 06:23 AM
Jenn in DC's Avatar Super Mommy
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Location: Washington, DC
Posts: 953
Wow - you've really been dealing with a lot of big things. It sounds like it is a very important time to focus on you and your family without the rollercoaster of TTC emotions. I wish you the very best with everything.

Jenn
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My History
Jenn in DC=39 DH=48
Started TTC #1 July 2009
Summer 2010 - Three IUIs with Clomid & Gonal F - All BFNs
Winter 2011 - IVF Clinical Trial. Cycle Cancelled.
March 2011 - Minimal Stimulation IVF #1 - 2 eggs retrieved, fertilized and frozen on Day 3.
April 2011 - Mini-IVF #2 - 2 eggs retrieved, fertilized and frozen as expanded blasts on Day 5.
May 2011 - Mini-IVF #3 - 4 eggs retrieved (two mature and 2 immature), one egg made it to blast and was frozen. Five snowbabies in all!! Hysteroscopy.
July 2011 - Single Frozen Embryo Transfer. BFP and then miscarriage

November 2011 - Single Frozen Embryo Transfer. BFP!! Aven Robert Born on August 4, 2012

July 2014 - Got Pregnant Naturally with Twins! Miscarriage at 9 weeks.
November 2014 - Single Frozen Embryo Transfer. BFP!
Beta #1 12 DPO = 45
Beta #2 14 DPO = 118
Beta #3 21 DPO = 3,451
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September 28th, 2010, 06:58 AM
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Location: Baltimore, MD
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Big hugs to you! Sounds like you are going through so much - but I'm glad you guys are aware of the cost of all the stress right now and taking a step back to get some normalcy back in your marraige and life. Don't be a stranger... we'll all be thinking about you!
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September 28th, 2010, 07:28 AM
~*Jackie*~'s Avatar Platinum Supermommy
Join Date: Apr 2008
Location: The Land of Infertility
Posts: 16,094
Best of luck to you and I hope with all the relaxing you end up with a surprise BFP!
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Thank you brie_91 for this fabulous siggy!!
Our TTC journey: 6 cycles Clomid, lap surgery/ D&C, IUI, 2 x IVF; 41 cycles- BFN.
IVF#1 (March 2010) Transferred two 8-cell grade A (perfect) embies- BFN and heartbroken.

IVF#2/FET#1 (Jan/Feb 2011):Transferred two (7&8 cell) grade A (PERFECT) embies- BFN again.
March 2011- August 2014: All but 7 cycles on BCP due to endometriosis.

IVF#3/FET#2 (November 2014) Transferred two perfect blasts- First BFP Ever. EDD 8/18/15


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September 28th, 2010, 10:33 AM
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Hope your lives get a little less stressful very soon.
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IVF babies Claire (4), Abigail (2) and George (2)

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September 28th, 2010, 12:18 PM
MommytoaMiracle's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
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Location: North Carolina
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Everyone needs a break from time to time to focus on something other than TTC.
I hope it's just what you need. Big hugs!
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September 28th, 2010, 05:19 PM
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