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So, tonight was our Sunday School class' Christmas party. Which SHOULD have been a night of awesome cheer and happiness.
Last week, I had just finally worked up the nerve to tell everyone in class that DH and were struggling with infertility and are using MA to get PG.
Well, tonight, my sister (who already has 2 kids) announces to everyone that her and her DH are trying for their third.
I shouldn't be as depressed as I am. But having kids comes so easy for her...all she has to do is think about it and she's pregnant, or so it seems.
Don't get me wrong, i LOVE my nieces and wouldn't trade them for anything...
It just really depressed me that she's working on number 3, and I can't even get my number 1.... I feel like I'm on the verge of a crying jag... DH understands somewhat.... but he doesn't have the "mommy bug" like i do...
I just dont know how to cheer myself up after her announcement. Don't get me wrong, I'm NOT jealous... just depressed.
aww =( I'm sorry! I know how you feel and I am here if you want to cry you can call me if you want too, my number is on fb.
Tabitha & Ryan; Married on Saturday, April 17, 2004 -TTC #1 for 7.5 years. Missing our Angels...
Dx with PCOS at age 14.
Miscarriage in June 2006
2 cycles of Clomid 50mg
1 cycle of Clomid 100mg resulting in miscarriage
Dx with Adenomyosis on 1/28/10
Clomid 150mg 4/30(day 3) - 5/4(day 5) Ultrasound on May 10th.
5/10 - Ultrasound showed 2 perfect follies! (15mm&17mm) Ovulation predicted within 6 days! Progesterone check ordered for 5/20.
5/27 - New round of Clomid started, no ultrasound this cycle, 2 more cycles planned on our own. If no bfp, onto next step!
6/27 - Round 3 Clomid 150mg started.
7/25 - AF Showed, starting final round of Clomid 150mg on CD3
8/21- AF Showed, In the process of finding a new RE
*Waiting to see our new RE
It is really hard, even now, for me to hear about people getting pregnant so easily. I wouldn't wish infertility on my worst enemy.... but it still stings when it seems like the whole world can achieve what you want most.
Hopefully with a little boost from MA you won't be long behind her. Heck, maybe you'll even get to be pregnant together! Hang in there sweetie, and remember that HOPE is sometimes all we have left to hang on to during these times of doubt and sadness.
Yet another wonderful siggy by HeatherW.... thank you so much!!!
Even after having DS it still stings to here people announce pregnancies or oopisies (not for you MA girls but in RL). Last year after we announce we were pregnant to the family at Christmas with our card being one of his US pictures a cousin of mine who just got married announced they were going to start TTC... She was pregnant by January 1st.