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March 4th, 2011, 04:09 AM
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I got a bfn this morning (cd 28). I know its not over til she shows but I can't help but be angry. Ttc is a journey of patience and well this must be gods way of teaching me patience. I'm over it. Idk what to do and have to have a hard convo with my doctor now. Dh doesn't get it, idk how to explain to him that dd beat the odds. I know it can happen again but dh says he's old (30 this summer) everyone says I'm young (25 this fall). Needless to say, he doesn't want to do this again (timed intercourse and all that goes with it). This is the best time to just keep trying bc we hardly pay any money out of pocket (cost of trigger shot and bloodwork - $300 at most is it). I just don't know what is next I'd we don't do this or if i will be back in square one and m/c every dang time bc my progesterone level is crap and I don't o right on my own. I can't see any alternative. Sigh- i just wish and hope that maybe it was early still.
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March 4th, 2011, 04:15 AM
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Maybe it's time for a second opinion. I don't think that 30 is very old...probably because my DH is 36 this year! Anyway, I wish you the best of luck!
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March 4th, 2011, 05:08 AM
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This is the only doc who has taken me seriously and said something was funny. Every other doc I've seen have said "oh you just need birth control". So I do trust her opinion. However, her plan is if we don't conceive after 6 mo of this it's time for an re. The only thing suggested to me was pcos or endo. I know I haven't been looked at for endo but the symptoms I thought might be endo have gone away as we've done the medicine stuff (I feel totally "balanced" hormonally something I've never felt).
I guess it's hard bc I feel comPlete having biological children (honestly when other girls pretended mom and dreamed of being mom I never thought I'd have kids of my own. I pretended to adopt kids). I have a void in my heart, family, etc for another child. Dh feels it too, but not as strong as I do. He also has a lot more worries with adoption than I do. We have talked about foster to adopt he wasnt that trilled!! Idk of it was bc I was working at the time or if be really wasnt comfortable. It's only been recently that he said he could possibly love an adopted child and that is crucial to me before even stepping in the direction. Idk lots to ponder I guess!
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