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March 14th, 2011, 07:51 AM
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I was feeling good about possibly getting a BFP this week, but with my almost-not-there lines from this morning's tests, I'm starting to think this cycle was a failure. To make matters worse, DH and I were talking last night about some future plans related to our jobs, house, vacations, etc, and he said "To be honest with you, I don't want to make any plans bc I really thought you'd be 7 or 8 months pg by now".

Also, I have a friend who has 3 children and has been trying for a fourth for about a year, so she went to see an RE about a month ago and had her first IUI last week. She is calling me non-stop, complaining about all of the tests, appointments, etc., and I just don't want to hear about it. I would KILL to have one child (not to mention THREE), and just don't have time or energy to listen to anybody's complaints. I also have a bet with my DH that her IUI will work on the first shot.

Thanks for reading my vent!
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March 14th, 2011, 08:09 AM
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Sending you happy thoughts. Keep your head up, girlie.
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March 14th, 2011, 08:17 AM
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Hang in there!! I definitely agree that this TTC heartache is for the birds! BUT... big BUT.. it will have all been plenty worth it, twice over even when you get your bundle of joy!!
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March 14th, 2011, 09:22 AM
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Im so sorry that you are feeling so down, I know that feeling all too well! I see that your only 11DPO, you definitely still have a shot this month! But I do know the feeling of feeling like its over before it really even is.

GOOD LUCK TO YOU!!!!
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Cycle #1-9 - All Natural....5BFN's, 4BFP's (all ended in miscarriage)
Cycle #10-11 - Met with first RE, diagnosed with heterzygeous MTHFR mutation & slightly low SA on all counts. -BFN, Cycle #12 - First IUI+Trigger - BFN, Cycle #13 - BFN
Cycle #14-15 - Met with new RE, diagnosed with a blocked right tube that previous RE completely overlooked or didnt care to mention. Soy (120mg) - BFN
Cycle #16 - Clomid (100mg) - BFN, Cycle #17 - Clomid (100mg)+Trigger+IUI - BFN
Cycle #18 - Acupuncture+Clomid (100mg) - BFN
Cycle #19-27 - 2 Soy (160mg) cycles, the rest all natural also 30lbs lost!! - BFN's
Cycle #28 - New RE is GREAT! Put on bcp 7/6/11, Lap surgery 8/1/11- Tubal cyst (5cm) found and removed, Uterine Septum removed, and Stage II-III endo removed. Cycle #29 - All Natural - BFN, Cycle #30 - All Natural - BFN, Cycle#31 - All Natural - BFN, DONE TTC FOR NOW




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March 14th, 2011, 10:42 AM
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March 14th, 2011, 01:31 PM
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Oh I can so relate. I get why you don't want to hear her complain. For some people its so easy and I'm glad for them. But we have to go through so much. I understand!
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2/2011 - IUI + Femara + HCG trigger and Progesterone injection BFN
3/2011 - IUI + Femara + HCG trigger and Progesterone injection
4/2011 - not doing IUI - DH out of town
5/2011 - IUI with Femara and HCG trigger. In hospital due to infection from IUI.
Took a break from all meds this summer.
9/2011: - Start with new RE - testing begins.
10/2011: - Hysteroscopy - determine tubes are blocked.
10/2011 : - Laparoscopy - clip blocked tubes, determine right ovary is adhered to pelvic wall, cut adhesions
11/24/2011: IVF cycle #1 begins. Start stims.
12/2/2011: End stims. HCG trigger.
12/4/2011: Egg Retrieval. 9 eggs, only 1 embryo.
12/7/2011: Transfer.
12/20/2011: IVF #1 failed.
1/16/2012: IVF #2 first scan
"Humanly speaking, it is impossible. But with God everything is possible." Matt. 19:26
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March 14th, 2011, 01:57 PM
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