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  #1  
March 22nd, 2011, 02:39 PM
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because it read in clear letters - NOT PREGNANT

yes, i am only 9 days past ovulation and 11 days past trigger but not looking good

yes, i took it at 4 30 pm when my urine is really diluted but not looking good

so mad that i broke down; so mad; well at least i know the trigger is gone but do you guys think there is any hope? do you think it would have said pregnant if i was? i used an early detection one and they are supposed to pick up 4-5 days early

does anyone have anything that i can hold on to that maybe this is too early to get upset????????/
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March 22nd, 2011, 03:07 PM
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Oh, I SOOOOO could have written this. I also tested today, with a digi, not with FMU, and also got the "Not Pregnant." I am 10DPO. Bleh.

My RE said that a beta of 100 was good for 14DPO, which means that 12DPO would be 50 and 10DPO would be 25...so the tests should barely be picking anything up at this point. There is plenty of time to get a BFP...we are just over anxious and tested WAY too early!
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March 22nd, 2011, 03:08 PM
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Still way early although I do the same thing.... Give it a few days and retest!!
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March 22nd, 2011, 04:01 PM
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It could be still too early.... some people dont get a BFP till like 16dpo so dont count your self out yet x
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March 22nd, 2011, 05:10 PM
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With Miss Ally I got a in the AM at 10DPO and by that afternoon I got a

There is definitely still hope
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March 23rd, 2011, 07:38 AM
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ok, so have to leave for work and am hysterical - took a test w FMU and negative; now i am 10 dpo and had brown when i wiped; in otherwords, period is starting
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March 23rd, 2011, 08:00 AM
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So I don't want to give you false hope, but it's SO EARLY! My RE specifically stated not to even try testing until 12 dpo (did I listen? No...)

I looked up when you can experience implantation spotting:
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Implantation bleeding is just one of several typical pregnancy symptoms and it usually happens around 6-12 days after ovulation and fertilization, within 1-2 days after arrival of the blastocyst in the uterus, usually around 9 days after ovulation (dpo), with a range of 6-12 days.
Read more at Implantation Bleeding Spotting and Symptoms | BabyMed.com
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March 23rd, 2011, 08:12 AM
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Still early!! Not giving up hope till the fat lady sings!!
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March 23rd, 2011, 08:15 AM
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Still WAY early!! And if the spotting doesnt pick up that could be a good sign! Good Luck!

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March 23rd, 2011, 08:22 AM
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i know it is not over till the fat lady sings, but i really think she will be performing on stage any minute

thanks girls for being upbeat for me; unfortunately, my cycle has not been 28 days for a while; it has been more like 24, sometimes 21 - so, w that beign said, 10 dpo seems early, but for my cycle, it would be right ; and tha tis another thing i want to know - why the hell is my cycle getting shorter
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IUI #4 done 6/6 - BFN
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total of 4 failed IUIs
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March 23rd, 2011, 08:31 AM
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I would still hold out hope. I have 24 day cycles and got a bfp on 11dpo. Are you sure the brown spotting is AF coming and not Implantation bleeding? ((Hugs)) I understand how hard this is.
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March 23rd, 2011, 02:59 PM
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i dont know but there was not even the faintest of lines next to the not pregnant line; i would think there would at least be areally faint line next to the control if i was

as for implantation bleeding, i am not sure that is a real thing; my doc seems to think it is the exception than the norm

and, i took yet another 15 mins ago, 4 45 pm here - let us all say it together
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IUI in December 2010 - BFP - chemical
IUI on 3/13/11 - BFN
April natural cycle - BFP on 4/22 - chemical confirmed 4/28
IUI done on 5/12 - BFN

IUI #4 done 6/6 - BFN
so sick of getting BFNs

total of 4 failed IUIs
IVF in July

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March 23rd, 2011, 03:41 PM
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I'm so sorry, Ali. That really, really stinks.
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March 23rd, 2011, 06:58 PM
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can someone please tell me why i am getting my period only 10 dpo? please? i cant take it anymore
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IUI in December 2010 - BFP - chemical
IUI on 3/13/11 - BFN
April natural cycle - BFP on 4/22 - chemical confirmed 4/28
IUI done on 5/12 - BFN

IUI #4 done 6/6 - BFN
so sick of getting BFNs

total of 4 failed IUIs
IVF in July

using acupuncture 1x week, Royal Jelly, pre natals, organic Spirulina, Maca Root and Red Raspberry tea
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March 23rd, 2011, 07:44 PM
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That's how my cycle was last couple of months. This is d first month I made this far. Have u always had a short lp?
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March 23rd, 2011, 08:03 PM
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So sorry!
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March 23rd, 2011, 08:10 PM
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the last 6 months, or so, my cycle has been 21-24 days - of course, have never gotten an answer as to why - did they give u an answer??
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IUI in December 2010 - BFP - chemical
IUI on 3/13/11 - BFN
April natural cycle - BFP on 4/22 - chemical confirmed 4/28
IUI done on 5/12 - BFN

IUI #4 done 6/6 - BFN
so sick of getting BFNs

total of 4 failed IUIs
IVF in July

using acupuncture 1x week, Royal Jelly, pre natals, organic Spirulina, Maca Root and Red Raspberry tea
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March 24th, 2011, 06:30 AM
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Have they tested your cd21 progesterone on both a medicated and non-medicated cycle? A 10 day LP sounds REALLY short, and I know my RE would be concerned about it. She got upset when mine were 12 or 13 days which I thought was normal! I definitely think you need to look into it more.
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