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June 27th, 2006, 12:56 PM
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an insensitive comment to you about TTC?? If so, what was it??
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June 27th, 2006, 01:01 PM
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While not intentionally insensitive, I get a lot of "just relax and it will happen", which makes me want to SCREAM because I have a known fertility problem. I also hear "so, two isn't enough for you?" ALL the time. And for the record, NO, 2 ISN'T enough!
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June 27th, 2006, 02:09 PM
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I get the "just relax" comment ALL THE TIME also. It drives me up the wall!! Alot of my family says "Your so busy, once you slow down it will happen" or "Stop stressing about it, when it is your time it will happen" SHUT UP!!! I even tell them....Please dont tell me to relax or stop stressing because it doesnt help anything and they will still say it. Finally I just started changing the subject any time it was brought up. I rarely even discuss TTC with my family because they still throw that comment out at me and I was tired of changing the subject. I told DH today that if the dr. told me to relax it was possible I would hit her, lmao.....luckily she was ready to take action right away after she saw that I have been trying for so long. When I got in the car to come home I told DH.....She didnt say just relax, Thank God!




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June 27th, 2006, 07:29 PM
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mine was more about my m/c. My friend once told me that her stomach hurt so bad she thought she was having a m/c. I had m/c about 3wks before she said that and her baby was 3mo old. She wasn't preg. again or even trying again.
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July 18th, 2006, 10:15 AM
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What are some more of those comments that you ladies have had?? I know that there has to be more out there.
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July 18th, 2006, 12:53 PM
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My SIL who was pregnant at the time with her first kept telling me that I need to change my mind about have ababy becasue she was so uncomfortable and her body hurt. I wanted to just slap the H E Doulbe Hockey Sticks out her lol. It took her almost a year to concieve with out any help what so ever and she thinks she has fertlilty problems. I really hate even being around her but her baby girl is really adorable. And all so get the relax bit too. I'm gonna make a t-shirt to ware around the in laws that say Mind Your Own Vagina, Leave Mine Alone. lol.
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July 18th, 2006, 01:19 PM
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no one really knows that we are trying. they know we really want another baby but they dont know we are trying. but it really bothers me when they say things like...ashton needs a sibling...you dont want you kids spaced too far apart...blah blah blah. drives me nuts.
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July 18th, 2006, 10:50 PM
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Candy- When you find a shirt that says that please tell me where so that I can get one too. That would be great for a few people that I know that are trying to stick their noses in our business.

Rollo- That would drive me crazy too.

I was stressed before everyone found out that we were trying but now I am still stressed because everyone keeps up with everything better than I can and its my appointments and such. They keep calling and asking what the doctor said and want to know if I am preggo. The in-laws are terrible about it!! My mom is getting to where she calls me on the days of my doctors appointments and asks what the doctor said. I am scared that my mom is going to end up like my in-laws because thats how they were at first but now it is worse. I am so happy that everyone is excited but I just want to tell them, "Back off and I will tell you things as I feel you need to know!!" but I don't want to be mean because at least they are supporting me. KWIM???
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