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November 29th, 2011, 03:15 PM
*JenJen*'s Avatar impatiently waiting
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After 4 weeks, all our genetic karyotype and RPL test results are in, and the answer? We just have ****** luck. Everything came back solidly normal, and there is no genetic or physical reason for our losses at this point.

Whenever we are ready to try again, he's given us the all clear. We'll switch to letrozole/femara and he wants us to pick another donor just to try and give karma a boost. We're talking about going back in the spring but not ready to make any firm decisions at this point...mostly because I am terrified of another loss and this time knowing that I just have ****** luck.

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RPL and Genetic Tests came back 100% normal | Endo, PCOS, severe MFI
Multiple early losses between 3 and 8 weeks.

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November 29th, 2011, 05:53 PM
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Wow, Jen...I'm sure you must have mixed feelings about everything! It is absolutely wonderful that the results are great and that there's no reason that you can't have a healthy pregnancy, but awful to know that you have had such rotten luck.

Whenever you and Jeremy are ready to make a decision, we'll be here to support you 1000% and help in any way we can. I hope 2012 is a year you can look back on and say "Wow...our lives totally changed for the better that year."

Melissa & DH
IVF babies Claire (4), Abigail (2) and George (2)

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November 29th, 2011, 06:22 PM
swtneka's Avatar Praying for a miracle
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I know that u would feel so much better if they came back that something was wrong n now u r thinking if nothing is wrong how u gone fix it. U have no control. I do truely understand
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November 29th, 2011, 06:28 PM
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I don't know what to say..... Yay that everything is normal or I'm so sorry you don't have an explanation for your losses. How frustrating for you. (((HUGS)))

I don't know if you are into this sort of thing......but I came across a very nice lady on the general TTC board who does Oracle readings. She was offering free mini readings to the girls on that board but since I don't participate in that board I didn't wanna snag a freebie. So, I went and checked out her website and she does baby readings for like $5. I am Catholic and not typically into this sort of thing but something compelled me and I went for it. I got my reading yesterday (just 2 days after placing the order) and I can't BEGIN to tell you the sense of hope and peace that came over me after reading what she had to say. It made me feel like I had certain goals to accomplish and the power to strongly influence WHEN we will conceive this baby. I'm so excited to see if what she says is true! Maybe it'd be nice for you.....just to maybe give you something positive to reflect on???? If you are interested here is her site: Home - Valkyrie Wisdom I get nothing for referring you to her or anything.....it just really did impact me that much that I wanted to share.
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November 29th, 2011, 07:32 PM
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Michelle, Sharron's readings are so wonderful. I need to get one again soon, she's done such wonderful ones for me in the past.

I was talking to my RE, and he was like, this IS good news. I know its good news, because at least this means we don't have to worry about even more expensive treatment and the odds are that our next pregnancy will be healthy, but man, I was at least hoping for some reason, something tiny and easily fixable, so I at least had a reason. I think I just need to wrap my head around it, even though I'd pretty much assumed it was just ****** luck.

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RPL and Genetic Tests came back 100% normal | Endo, PCOS, severe MFI
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November 29th, 2011, 08:54 PM
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Yikes...I don't know whether to say congratulations or not? Glad that everything checked out, but sad that you have no answers or any new direction to go. It must be frustrating for you (and for women dealing with unexplained IF) to not have any answers. IF is frustrating for me and I KNOW the reason why I don't get pregnant on my own. I think though, in the overall scheme, this is VERY good news!!!!
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November 30th, 2011, 05:35 AM
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This is very good! One more worry you can cross off the list. Your next baby and my next baby are both going to stick and do great. I totally get the fear, though. I don't know how I would get through another loss. Getting pregnant again is going to feel so different. But these losses are just a fluke and hopefully will never happen again. I have a book coming today from amazon that I'm hoping will help me sort through all pain:
Miscarriage after Infertility: A Woman's Guide to Coping
by Margaret Comerford Freda, Carrie Ann Semelsberger
I can let you know how it is!
Katherine (31) and Hubby (33)
TTC #1 since September 2009. Stopped TTC in January 2012
IUI #1 April 2011 was a success, but lost baby at 9 weeks
IUIs #2-5 BFN
Decided not to do IVF and embrace a childfree life (at least for awhile)
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November 30th, 2011, 12:43 PM
kayakr's Avatar Persuaded by POAS’ers
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Jen - I am sooo sorry for your losses and I can't even pretend I know what you must feel like having the losses. However, having your tests results come back perfect is AWESOME! You will just have to let go of the fact that you will never know what happened and someday you'll meet your babies in heaven when God decides it is time.
Your next pregnancy will be perfect! The odds are all in your favor now. Love your babies you never got to meet and don't be afraid to love the one you are going to have.
Me (43) DH(33) 12 years together - ttc our first together-I have 14yr old DS
Cycles 1-6 = BFN
Cycle 7 SA results abnormal morphology 2%, 50 mg clomid = BFN
Cycle 8 sonogram normal 50 mg clomid + trigger = BFN
Cycle 9 SA results abnormal morphology and motility. Count 200 mill, 100mg clomid + trigger = BFN
Cycle 10 natural = BFN
Cycle 11 hsg tubes clear, natural + trigger+IUI = BFN
Cycle 12 repronex + trigger + 2 IUI = BFN
Cycle 13 natural ovaries to stimulated for more meds = BFN
Cycle 14-22 natural cycle with Acupuncture and planning ivf/icsi/DE = ALL BFN
Cycle 23 Clomid 50 mg & Progesterone = BFN
Cycle 24 Natural = BFN
Cycle 25 BCP, SA result 7% morphology = BFN
Cycle 26 BCP and Lupron preparing for IVF
Cycle 27 IVF Acupuncture, DE Retrieval April 7, Transfer April 12 =
7 eggs retrieved, 3 fertilized, 2 transferred - zero snow babies
BETA # 1 16DPO or 11dp5dt = 569
BETA # 2 19 DPO or 14dp5dt = 1078
BETA # 3 22DPO or 17dp5dt = 2414 TWINS!
BETA # 4 30DPO or 25dp5dt = 12,685 6weeks 3days 2 heartbeats! 114 & 116
Clayton and Colton Born @ 34 weeks 11/22/13
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