I'm not sure I really have any answers, either

I'm sorry you are having these struggles.
If you don't mind my asking, how old are you? When you say you have low ovarian count...to what do you refer? Your plan probably depends heavily on those things...if your ovarian reserve is low and your egg quality isn't great, IVF might be a great option for you. Do you know if insurance will cover any of these options?
SOrry for all the questions...maybe if we can get some brainstorming going it will get others into the conversation and we can come up with some ideas!