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February 13th, 2013, 01:40 PM
kayakr's Avatar Persuaded by POAS’ers
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What did your DH say? How did you tell them?

I want to live through you!
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Me (43) DH(33) 12 years together - ttc our first together-I have 14yr old DS
Cycles 1-6 = BFN
Cycle 7 SA results abnormal morphology 2%, 50 mg clomid = BFN
Cycle 8 sonogram normal 50 mg clomid + trigger = BFN
Cycle 9 SA results abnormal morphology and motility. Count 200 mill, 100mg clomid + trigger = BFN
Cycle 10 natural = BFN
Cycle 11 hsg tubes clear, natural + trigger+IUI = BFN
Cycle 12 repronex + trigger + 2 IUI = BFN
Cycle 13 natural ovaries to stimulated for more meds = BFN
Cycle 14-22 natural cycle with Acupuncture and planning ivf/icsi/DE = ALL BFN
Cycle 23 Clomid 50 mg & Progesterone = BFN
Cycle 24 Natural = BFN
Cycle 25 BCP, SA result 7% morphology = BFN
Cycle 26 BCP and Lupron preparing for IVF
Cycle 27 IVF Acupuncture, DE Retrieval April 7, Transfer April 12 =
7 eggs retrieved, 3 fertilized, 2 transferred - zero snow babies
BETA # 1 16DPO or 11dp5dt = 569
BETA # 2 19 DPO or 14dp5dt = 1078
BETA # 3 22DPO or 17dp5dt = 2414 TWINS!
BETA # 4 30DPO or 25dp5dt = 12,685 6weeks 3days 2 heartbeats! 114 & 116
Clayton and Colton Born @ 34 weeks 11/22/13
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February 13th, 2013, 02:10 PM
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I believe it was "I told you so" and then "okay, well lets see what happens this time". as for telling him, he wouldn't let me have any alcohol to drink unless I tested(superbowl weekend) and so I tested late in the afternoon after chugging a ton of water assuming it would be negative at that point(even though I was pretty sure it would be positive in a few more days). it was positive so I slammed it down on the counter and told him I was mad now. I really wanted that alcohol lol, even though I rarely drink.
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February 13th, 2013, 05:38 PM
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So you both kinda knew. Funny how that works huh? I hardly drink either, but when I want to I want to. lol

I probably have a drink a month, maybe two.

How about you other ladies? There are two more right?
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Me (43) DH(33) 12 years together - ttc our first together-I have 14yr old DS
Cycles 1-6 = BFN
Cycle 7 SA results abnormal morphology 2%, 50 mg clomid = BFN
Cycle 8 sonogram normal 50 mg clomid + trigger = BFN
Cycle 9 SA results abnormal morphology and motility. Count 200 mill, 100mg clomid + trigger = BFN
Cycle 10 natural = BFN
Cycle 11 hsg tubes clear, natural + trigger+IUI = BFN
Cycle 12 repronex + trigger + 2 IUI = BFN
Cycle 13 natural ovaries to stimulated for more meds = BFN
Cycle 14-22 natural cycle with Acupuncture and planning ivf/icsi/DE = ALL BFN
Cycle 23 Clomid 50 mg & Progesterone = BFN
Cycle 24 Natural = BFN
Cycle 25 BCP, SA result 7% morphology = BFN
Cycle 26 BCP and Lupron preparing for IVF
Cycle 27 IVF Acupuncture, DE Retrieval April 7, Transfer April 12 =
7 eggs retrieved, 3 fertilized, 2 transferred - zero snow babies
BETA # 1 16DPO or 11dp5dt = 569
BETA # 2 19 DPO or 14dp5dt = 1078
BETA # 3 22DPO or 17dp5dt = 2414 TWINS!
BETA # 4 30DPO or 25dp5dt = 12,685 6weeks 3days 2 heartbeats! 114 & 116
Clayton and Colton Born @ 34 weeks 11/22/13
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February 13th, 2013, 07:00 PM
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yeha, it's kind of hard not to know. I start getting sick super early, like before I can even test.
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February 14th, 2013, 06:06 AM
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I love hearing how other people tell their DHs (or SOs) about their BFP. I never did anything exciting so I love hearing creative ways people do it and I also love hearing people not do anything creative because it makes me feel better that I didn't! hahaa!

Jennifer, that is cute you both kinda knew before you tested! I don't drink often either but when you want to, you want to. But here's hoping you don't get to drink for another 8 months!
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February 14th, 2013, 07:35 AM
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I told Tom and showed him the stick. It took a couple of tests to believe me. It will be his first baby (at 47), he just kept saying, really quietly 'i'm going to be a daddy? i'm going to be a daddy.'
It was totally heart melting
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February 14th, 2013, 07:59 AM
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i wish i had a good story...i don't I was so shocked when i took the (what i thought was 9DPO) hpt that I texted him and said "took test, it's positive, like crazy positive"...husband, being used to my crazy POAS line squinting ways didn't even really believe me about it being such a big line until he came home and then he promptly began panicking over thought of multiples.

When i got out of RE appt Monday, I texted him "must call me" and when i told him all of the crazy news he actually didn't even have a reaction he was so stunned...by the time he got home though he was all excited (keep in mind we assumed we were losing the pregnancy when i went in after all the bleeding) and now he's like a drill instructor on me about eating timely & drinking lots of water
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February 14th, 2013, 10:32 AM
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I just got my first blood tests back!

16dpo:
HCG 65
Progesterone 23

Dr says is great for just over 4 weeks. The HCG isn't what I thought it would be though. Does that sound ok?
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