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Gretchen, that is totally normal. The regular DDCs are hard for folks like us...there is so much whining, discussion about unwanted pregnancies, etc. and it is tough. I encourage you not to completely rule out being a part of one, though. After the first trimester most of the losses are over and everyone is a little more calm and reasonable. You might want to just lurk or hang out on the fringes and join in later
I don't and won't judge anyone but most of them seem in a really different place then me. Babies daddy's that don't want them and just lots of stuff... I'm queer I guess. I don't feel like I can be of much support to most of them for anything.
Maybe I feel goofy too cause I am old and did IVF/DE - only a few there "get" that.
I guess you can say their drama is a lot different than our drama and I am used to our drama. lol
I had a hard time thinking about diving in. And I definitely had a hard time leaving it. Felt like I didn't fit anywhere!!
And oh good lord, the nonsense a couple of those younger ladies drivel over is just something else! It seems like some of them have never had real grown up problems. (sorry if that sounds harsh... Just an opinion!)
Most of the ladies from there were really wonderful, and I miss some dearly. I wouldn't rule it out, I think you'd make at least a couple really nice friends.
TTC#3 since Summer 2011
10 IUIs= one confirmed and lots of BFN
9/13/13 IVF#1 ( One 5AA blast)= BFN
11/18/13 FET (Two 5AA blasts)=
2/26/14 FET (Two 5BA blasts)= BFP!!!
Beta HCG 14 DPO: 181 / 17 DPO: 870 / 24 DPO: 16,051
3/24/14= We have a heartbeat and ONE sticky bean! My blog