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April 24th, 2013, 06:07 AM
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Just wanting to warn you all that I am not leaving this board. This is my home and here is will I will stay. Sorry - you're not getting rid of me. I only like it here.

I couldn't want BFP more for everyone and I will be here to see them all.
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Me (43) DH(33) 12 years together - ttc our first together-I have 14yr old DS
Cycles 1-6 = BFN
Cycle 7 SA results abnormal morphology 2%, 50 mg clomid = BFN
Cycle 8 sonogram normal 50 mg clomid + trigger = BFN
Cycle 9 SA results abnormal morphology and motility. Count 200 mill, 100mg clomid + trigger = BFN
Cycle 10 natural = BFN
Cycle 11 hsg tubes clear, natural + trigger+IUI = BFN
Cycle 12 repronex + trigger + 2 IUI = BFN
Cycle 13 natural ovaries to stimulated for more meds = BFN
Cycle 14-22 natural cycle with Acupuncture and planning ivf/icsi/DE = ALL BFN
Cycle 23 Clomid 50 mg & Progesterone = BFN
Cycle 24 Natural = BFN
Cycle 25 BCP, SA result 7% morphology = BFN
Cycle 26 BCP and Lupron preparing for IVF
Cycle 27 IVF Acupuncture, DE Retrieval April 7, Transfer April 12 =
7 eggs retrieved, 3 fertilized, 2 transferred - zero snow babies
BETA # 1 16DPO or 11dp5dt = 569
BETA # 2 19 DPO or 14dp5dt = 1078
BETA # 3 22DPO or 17dp5dt = 2414 TWINS!
BETA # 4 30DPO or 25dp5dt = 12,685 6weeks 3days 2 heartbeats! 114 & 116
Clayton and Colton Born @ 34 weeks 11/22/13
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April 24th, 2013, 06:23 AM
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Ditto. I love you gals and I want to be here to cheer you on. And I've had a M/C before...we all know how easily we can get tossed back into the ttc game.

Praying for sticky beans for all though!!!
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April 24th, 2013, 06:35 AM
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I don't want you two to leave!!!!! Stay here with us!
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April 24th, 2013, 06:54 AM
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Good, cause we won't let you leave! We like our grads to stick around and expect regular updates!
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April 24th, 2013, 06:58 AM
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April 24th, 2013, 07:06 AM
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April 24th, 2013, 07:10 AM
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If you even thought about leaving, we'd stalk you and drag you back here kicking and screaming
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April 24th, 2013, 07:22 AM
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Haha. Are you kidding?? If you try to leave, we will find you and DRAG you back here!!!


(oops.. same thought lol)
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April 24th, 2013, 07:45 AM
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If you even thought about leaving, we'd stalk you and drag you back here kicking and screaming
what she said. seriously. I stalk her down if she goes too long without updating us.
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April 24th, 2013, 07:56 AM
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I don't like it any other place. I am not sure I fit in with Dec ddc. I am having a "who am I, where do I belong" crisis. lol
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Gretchen
Me (43) DH(33) 12 years together - ttc our first together-I have 14yr old DS
Cycles 1-6 = BFN
Cycle 7 SA results abnormal morphology 2%, 50 mg clomid = BFN
Cycle 8 sonogram normal 50 mg clomid + trigger = BFN
Cycle 9 SA results abnormal morphology and motility. Count 200 mill, 100mg clomid + trigger = BFN
Cycle 10 natural = BFN
Cycle 11 hsg tubes clear, natural + trigger+IUI = BFN
Cycle 12 repronex + trigger + 2 IUI = BFN
Cycle 13 natural ovaries to stimulated for more meds = BFN
Cycle 14-22 natural cycle with Acupuncture and planning ivf/icsi/DE = ALL BFN
Cycle 23 Clomid 50 mg & Progesterone = BFN
Cycle 24 Natural = BFN
Cycle 25 BCP, SA result 7% morphology = BFN
Cycle 26 BCP and Lupron preparing for IVF
Cycle 27 IVF Acupuncture, DE Retrieval April 7, Transfer April 12 =
7 eggs retrieved, 3 fertilized, 2 transferred - zero snow babies
BETA # 1 16DPO or 11dp5dt = 569
BETA # 2 19 DPO or 14dp5dt = 1078
BETA # 3 22DPO or 17dp5dt = 2414 TWINS!
BETA # 4 30DPO or 25dp5dt = 12,685 6weeks 3days 2 heartbeats! 114 & 116
Clayton and Colton Born @ 34 weeks 11/22/13
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April 24th, 2013, 08:08 AM
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I personally need you to stay because I need all the DE advice I can get from someone whose been through it!
We all want to hear about your pregnancy. We'll be your psuedo-DDC.
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7/12/13 - 16 dpo beta=825
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April 24th, 2013, 08:10 AM
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Gretchen, that is totally normal. The regular DDCs are hard for folks like us...there is so much whining, discussion about unwanted pregnancies, etc. and it is tough. I encourage you not to completely rule out being a part of one, though. After the first trimester most of the losses are over and everyone is a little more calm and reasonable. You might want to just lurk or hang out on the fringes and join in later
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April 24th, 2013, 08:34 AM
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I don't and won't judge anyone but most of them seem in a really different place then me. Babies daddy's that don't want them and just lots of stuff... I'm queer I guess. I don't feel like I can be of much support to most of them for anything.
Maybe I feel goofy too cause I am old and did IVF/DE - only a few there "get" that.

I guess you can say their drama is a lot different than our drama and I am used to our drama. lol

I dunno. I am just staying here.
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Gretchen
Me (43) DH(33) 12 years together - ttc our first together-I have 14yr old DS
Cycles 1-6 = BFN
Cycle 7 SA results abnormal morphology 2%, 50 mg clomid = BFN
Cycle 8 sonogram normal 50 mg clomid + trigger = BFN
Cycle 9 SA results abnormal morphology and motility. Count 200 mill, 100mg clomid + trigger = BFN
Cycle 10 natural = BFN
Cycle 11 hsg tubes clear, natural + trigger+IUI = BFN
Cycle 12 repronex + trigger + 2 IUI = BFN
Cycle 13 natural ovaries to stimulated for more meds = BFN
Cycle 14-22 natural cycle with Acupuncture and planning ivf/icsi/DE = ALL BFN
Cycle 23 Clomid 50 mg & Progesterone = BFN
Cycle 24 Natural = BFN
Cycle 25 BCP, SA result 7% morphology = BFN
Cycle 26 BCP and Lupron preparing for IVF
Cycle 27 IVF Acupuncture, DE Retrieval April 7, Transfer April 12 =
7 eggs retrieved, 3 fertilized, 2 transferred - zero snow babies
BETA # 1 16DPO or 11dp5dt = 569
BETA # 2 19 DPO or 14dp5dt = 1078
BETA # 3 22DPO or 17dp5dt = 2414 TWINS!
BETA # 4 30DPO or 25dp5dt = 12,685 6weeks 3days 2 heartbeats! 114 & 116
Clayton and Colton Born @ 34 weeks 11/22/13
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April 24th, 2013, 09:07 AM
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Yeah I am so glad that both of you are staying!!! Because it would be so weird without having you here. We drag you back anyway
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April 24th, 2013, 10:07 AM
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I had a hard time thinking about diving in. And I definitely had a hard time leaving it. Felt like I didn't fit anywhere!!

And oh good lord, the nonsense a couple of those younger ladies drivel over is just something else! It seems like some of them have never had real grown up problems. (sorry if that sounds harsh... Just an opinion!)
BUT!!
Most of the ladies from there were really wonderful, and I miss some dearly. I wouldn't rule it out, I think you'd make at least a couple really nice friends.
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April 24th, 2013, 10:10 AM
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Wouldn't want it any other way - We love you and your advice
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April 24th, 2013, 11:39 AM
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Well I introduced myself over there and I'll try but I just am hesitant to say the least.
They are not you guys....
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Gretchen
Me (43) DH(33) 12 years together - ttc our first together-I have 14yr old DS
Cycles 1-6 = BFN
Cycle 7 SA results abnormal morphology 2%, 50 mg clomid = BFN
Cycle 8 sonogram normal 50 mg clomid + trigger = BFN
Cycle 9 SA results abnormal morphology and motility. Count 200 mill, 100mg clomid + trigger = BFN
Cycle 10 natural = BFN
Cycle 11 hsg tubes clear, natural + trigger+IUI = BFN
Cycle 12 repronex + trigger + 2 IUI = BFN
Cycle 13 natural ovaries to stimulated for more meds = BFN
Cycle 14-22 natural cycle with Acupuncture and planning ivf/icsi/DE = ALL BFN
Cycle 23 Clomid 50 mg & Progesterone = BFN
Cycle 24 Natural = BFN
Cycle 25 BCP, SA result 7% morphology = BFN
Cycle 26 BCP and Lupron preparing for IVF
Cycle 27 IVF Acupuncture, DE Retrieval April 7, Transfer April 12 =
7 eggs retrieved, 3 fertilized, 2 transferred - zero snow babies
BETA # 1 16DPO or 11dp5dt = 569
BETA # 2 19 DPO or 14dp5dt = 1078
BETA # 3 22DPO or 17dp5dt = 2414 TWINS!
BETA # 4 30DPO or 25dp5dt = 12,685 6weeks 3days 2 heartbeats! 114 & 116
Clayton and Colton Born @ 34 weeks 11/22/13
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April 24th, 2013, 03:22 PM
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YAY!!!!


I wish more of our grads, esp those who went through so much and have so much advice to offer! I wish our dear Lindsay & Lara would post more *hint hint*
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