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  #1  
September 28th, 2013, 08:34 PM
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Just curious...
Do you say B F N?
Or do you say
Big
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Negative?

F stands for ??
FAT? Friggin? F-----?

I am a potty mouth and someone day I fear I will say I got a big fing negative but not censored
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September 28th, 2013, 09:04 PM
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Hah! I usually say "fat" but fing fits too.

I am SO sorry IVF didn't work for you Lucy.
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September 28th, 2013, 10:41 PM
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Depending how I am feeling that morning of testing, it is either friggin or f'ing!
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September 29th, 2013, 04:41 AM
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A word that can't be used in polite conversation that's for darn sure.
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September 29th, 2013, 06:34 AM
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Definitely the one that requires soap after use
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September 29th, 2013, 06:42 AM
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Hah! I usually say "fat" but fing fits too.

I am SO sorry IVF didn't work for you Lucy.
Hi E-A, maybe I (sorry if I) missed your intro! I want to respond to you that in my opinion, your comment is insensitive. IVF DID work for Lucy. She had fabulous medication results, perfect conditions for transfer, and beautiful frosties. I am not sure how familiar you are with IVF- but many women need multiple rounds to have their babies. It's great science- but not one that guarantees first time results. Please consider how comments may be received. It definitely makes it more difficult to post, but it pays forward to all of us in this IF journey. Thanks!
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September 29th, 2013, 08:36 AM
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I say the word that JM censors. I don't care if it can't be used in polite company, it totally applies.
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September 29th, 2013, 04:58 PM
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Yeah, I definitely use the dirty "F" word...it's appropriate in this case
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September 29th, 2013, 08:37 PM
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Whew ok! Glad I am not the only one!!
I just seriously hope I never say it out loud in mixed company!

Sunrise- Thank you sweetheart but I wasn't offend by Eleanor-Abigail. She has been around for a bit now and I know her on the older TTC forum
But maybe someone else would be and it's something I should even keep in mind tho!
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September 29th, 2013, 09:06 PM
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yup my mother would be washing my mouth out with soap. Fudging is substituted if Reme happens to be around.
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September 30th, 2013, 06:17 AM
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%&^%&@#^#%&* - for sure!
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Cycle 23 Clomid 50 mg & Progesterone = BFN
Cycle 24 Natural = BFN
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September 30th, 2013, 06:36 AM
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oh yeah - mine rhymes with DUCK
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September 30th, 2013, 03:35 PM
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I say FAT usually, but on occassion I have gone back to my sailor days
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October 1st, 2013, 11:34 PM
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I go with F%$K or FUGLY really depends on my mood
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October 2nd, 2013, 10:43 AM
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I usually think FAT, but in certain cases I'm a little bit more harsh!
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October 2nd, 2013, 04:37 PM
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Mine is usually fat but occasionally it is the duck word... Accompanied by many more 4 letter words
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