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February 28th, 2007, 05:36 PM
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My best friend's dd who is 16 was due her baby boy in 2wks and went for her final scan today...
There was no heartbeat and he has died in the womb.

I feel so very deeply sad. She has to go into hospital tomorrow to be induced to give birth.
I cannot imagine what that young girl is going through and my friend Jane will be with her
throughout the birth.

The baby a boy, will be named robert and the funeral will be some time next wk.

It is breaking my heart for her. She should be getting 'congrats' cards, not sympathy

I also feel terrible that i was so,so green with envy right through her pg.
All i could think was 'why a child of 16 and not me?' now i feel shocking about thinking that.

I have terrible guilt of not wanting her to be pg and now her baby has died.
This is a terrible time for her family and any prayers would be greatly received.
She will be induced around 1pm tomorrow and the labour could go on intill Friday as it
will take longer since the baby is not alive.

I feel so very very sad.

I may not be on tomorrow ladies, and then i go away on fri intill sat night.
I will be back on the board then. Need to accept this shocking event and prepare myself
for the funeral and also if they ask me to go and see the baby...

Thank you ladies for listening.

Sarah.
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February 28th, 2007, 06:11 PM
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Oh my gosh that is awful. I dont even know what to say , but she will be in my thoughts and prayers. Cant imagine what she is going through...she is just a baby herself and for something like this to happen to her is awful. Do they have any idea what happened?
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February 28th, 2007, 06:49 PM
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prayers are offered up to your friends sweet baby boy!

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March 1st, 2007, 06:34 AM
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Oh no Sarah, this is so tragic. I can't even imagine what this poor girl is going through. My thoughts extend to you, your friend and her family.

Please don't feel guilty - the feelings you had of wanting to be pregnant when around someone who is is very very normal. That doesn't mean you didn't want that other person to have a baby of their own, it just means you really want one of your own. So please don't beat yourself up over that.
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March 1st, 2007, 02:19 PM
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Many many prayers to you sweetie. I agree with Gillian, try not to beat yourself up. All you ever wanted was a baby and it's natural to wonder why things happen as they do. You never meant any harm to this young lady or her baby. Please take care.
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March 1st, 2007, 04:47 PM
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Wow that is just so sad My prayers are with your family and that sweet angel boy.
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