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September 24th, 2007, 08:31 AM
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Thank you ladies for all your thoughts and prayers but there was no miracle here. I guess this pregnancy just wasn't meant to be. Last night I started cramping really bad--all the way up my back--and started bleeding. I spent the night laying on the couch with a heating pad. Poor DH didn't know what to do, I was so upset and he was too. He said that he can't stand to see me hurt and see how frustrated and disappointed I get every month when it doesn't work and he was ready to throw in the towel. Unfortunately for him that was not what I wanted to hear at that moment and I got even more upset. But we talked about it and decided to give our new RE a shot and see what he can do for us. I was still hoping against hope that we might have a small miracle today but instead the bleeding got heavier and I passed the baby this morning.

I went for my yearly physical with my family doctor (conveniently scheduled for this morning) and told her what happened. She took me out of work today and tomorrow. I was going to go in because my boss is such a jerk but she said no way and gave me a note. I'm kinda glad cause I don't really feel like doing anything today. Although I have a conference call at 2 that I have to take no matter what---what a joy. Oh well. One thing wont' be that bad and at least I can be home in my jammies.

It has been one heck of a rollercoaster ride over the past 10 days. I have gone through every possible human emotion over the shortest pregnancy ever. But at least my little angel has a big angel sister to be with and hopefully they will convince God one of these days to let me have a baby to hold here.

Thank you ladies for all your support. I wouldn't have been able to get through the last 10 days without you guys.
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September 24th, 2007, 08:49 AM
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*HUGS* I'm sorry sweetie. I really hope you feel better. You're in my T&Ps!
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September 24th, 2007, 09:01 AM
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Oh hun, my heart just goes out to you and your DH. Fortunately as you say your baby has a big sister angel looking out for him. I imagine baby heaven to be the most wonderful place there is. It has to be, with all our sweet little angels there. You are such a brave woman to actually work, even though you say it's just a conference call. It's hard because you have to be "on" for those. I am so sorry, you are in my thoughts & prayers.
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September 24th, 2007, 09:36 AM
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Thank you so much for all the support. I really appreciate it. I'm just trying to relax and accept what happened and hope that this new RE will be able to figure out what is wrong.
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September 24th, 2007, 10:09 AM
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Sweetie, I am so sorry. I know the feeling and it breaks my heart that anyone ever has to have that feeling ever again. No one should have to go through that ... it's just not fair.
I'm sending you tons of hugs and will keep you in my thoughts always
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September 24th, 2007, 10:14 AM
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I wanted to offer my thoughts and prayers to you and your family. This is just so sad and it is so hard to see this happen. Take all the time you need to rest and heal.
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September 24th, 2007, 10:50 AM
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oh hun I am so sorry!!!
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September 24th, 2007, 11:17 AM
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September 24th, 2007, 11:32 AM
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Thank you ladies so much for all the support. It really means the world to me and it makes this a little easier to deal with.
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Thank you ladies so much for all the support. It really means the world to me and it makes this a little easier to deal with.[/b]
So sorry! You are in my thoughts and prayers and I know one day you will get the miracle you deserve!
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September 24th, 2007, 12:47 PM
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September 24th, 2007, 01:30 PM
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Oh, I'm so sorry for your loss.
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September 24th, 2007, 02:15 PM
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Thank you all again so much. I have moments of sadness and being ok and they keep coming and going. The RE called and my HCG level was 2 when my blood was drawn this morning so its definitely over. At least I'll be seeing the RE on Wednesday and going over our options. I'll have to wait until mid-October to try again, at least that is what I'm figuring but we shall see. Have to play by the RE's rules in order to know.
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September 24th, 2007, 03:05 PM
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My heart broke reading this. I was really praying that this would not be the case. I am so sorry. You know I am here for you, no matter what you need. Please know you are in my thoughts & in my prayers!
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September 24th, 2007, 06:27 PM
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September 24th, 2007, 06:49 PM
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I'm so sorry hun.... I was so excited for you and your miracle , but you can be sure that he or she is safe now and resting in God's arms!!!
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September 25th, 2007, 05:25 AM
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Jenny, so sorry to see this. I have been out on vacation, just got back in town and catching up on JM news. Am very sorry for your loss.
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September 25th, 2007, 07:01 AM
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Thank you ladies so much. I'm sitting here on the "man chair"---its this big soft leather chaise recliner my DH insisted we have, but now I'm glad that we have it. I can sit with my feet up, laptop on my lap and just chill out. I'm trying to come to terms with everything and DH and I are talking about what we are going to do. Wonder if we should wait or if we should try again as soon as the RE lets us. I really can't decide anything right now--too emotional and I haven't had a chance to sit down with the RE and go over where we stand and what his plans are for me. I guess I just get to thinking too much about everything--probably a way of distracting myself from the reality of the situation.

Thanks again for all your thoughts and prayers.
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September 25th, 2007, 07:32 AM
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I am so sorry to hear this. Hopefully your RE will have a new plan of attack.
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