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February 14th, 2010, 06:30 AM
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I have been putting off talking to dh about having another one b/c Im so afraid he is going to say no, but the baby fever is so bad and I think with Ava's first birthday coming up Im having a really hard time accepting we wont have anymore. some days I get so sad at the thought of us not having any more kids. I think IM at the point though that I need to talk to him so I can put closure on whatever we decide to do. I just cant keep being in limbo about it.

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I almost chickened out! Anyways I asked him if he wanted to have any more kids and he said "lets get our debt paid down and get our house straight" (we are most likely moving into a bigger house.....thats a whole other post) then we will talk about it! Im am estatic b/c I know that means yes. I have been suspecting he was changing his mind by some comments he has made lately. Im so glad that I finally asked him and I guess I shouldnt of been such a chicken and asked him sooner!
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February 14th, 2010, 07:07 AM
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Best wishes on a good conversation. Sometimes they say no, then a couple years later change their minds.
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February 14th, 2010, 07:47 AM
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You should definitely talk to him about how you feel. Sometimes just knowing it is a possibility later on helps keep the baby fever in check. Hope all goes well for you!
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February 14th, 2010, 09:20 AM
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February 14th, 2010, 09:58 AM
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Good Luck! I hope you and your dh have a good conversation.
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February 14th, 2010, 10:24 AM
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good luck I hope the outcome is something you can both deal with.
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February 14th, 2010, 07:13 PM
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Good luck I hope he says yes.
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February 14th, 2010, 09:43 PM
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I know I won't be ready if dh really sticks to his this is our last one, so I'll be putting off that talk for a while, but also I'm hoping time changes his mind!
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February 15th, 2010, 08:32 PM
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Oh, I hope he says yes and you will soon get your BFP!
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February 16th, 2010, 05:58 AM
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Thanks! Im pretty confident we will be having #7, Im hoping to talk him into TTC in the fall, so we will have a summer baby that way I dont have to take any time off work.
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February 16th, 2010, 06:29 AM
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Yay! I'm glad your talk went well.
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February 16th, 2010, 10:58 AM
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That's exciting! I'm glad things went well for you guys.
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February 16th, 2010, 01:40 PM
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