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that you can't say you're done having kids, but not really for a reason other than the "large family" is what you are, and what you identify with? If I don't have any more kids it doesn't make me LESS of a family... but I feel disapointed if I tell anyone that we will NEVER have more kids. At this point, my husband doesn't want to have more, but I can't say that I am done.
Sebastian is 9 mo old and only 15 lbs yet, so maybe that's why I don't feel the urge to be pregnant right now, he's still a teeny baby lol.
IRL if someone asks if we are done I usually say that we're not planning anymore but if it happens we'll be thrilled. (Which translates into, Dh says no more but I would love another, lol.)
I'm not sure why I don't want to be finished. I should, my life is great and I really don't feel like I'm missing anything. I think it's the fact that I can't imagine moving past this phase of my life yet.
Cortney...mom to A, C, E, L, I, and R
I understand how you feel, but I don't relate on a personal leveL anymorel, I am sooooo done, but I've had a few years to get over it. Even though I knew my 5th would be my last, I still needed a little time before I was okay to make it permanent.