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November 30th, 2010, 05:50 AM
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My boobs aren't sore at all today, and I wasn't up to pee at all last night. What if the baby has died already? That's what happened with my first pg, baby died at 5w and we didn't know until 12w, m/c at 14 weeks
I bought two pair of discount mat pants yesterday, did I mess up and jinx myself?
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November 30th, 2010, 06:03 AM
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No. You know there is nothing that can be done at this point either way. My boobs didn't do anything the last few. Like they are just used to it. All you can do is pray for the baby. I am praying for you both!!
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November 30th, 2010, 09:42 AM
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We're just so scared. I hate feeling like this. With Nolan, I always just assumed there'd be another dead baby with each u/s, neither of us truly bonded with him until 33 weeks, when we knew he was a boy, and we knew he could live. Isn't that terrible thinking for a mother?
We were just so excited for our first pg, and we were sideswiped when we believed so hard that baby was fine, and it turns out it had been dead inside me for months. I never want to have such a horrible surprise again.
I am not in control. I need to learn that.
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November 30th, 2010, 09:51 AM
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awww, Marie, no wonder you feel the way you do. (((hugs))) to you.
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November 30th, 2010, 02:23 PM
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I didn't have that many symptoms with this pregnancy at first. I understand why you feel that way, but it can be normal. Don't give up hope.
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November 30th, 2010, 02:55 PM
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thank you ladies. I bought two hpt's to get me through the weekend until my next hcg next Monday
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November 30th, 2010, 03:14 PM
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Aww Marie - try not to worry. I know it's easier said than done. You are right that you are not in control - it's hard to accept that sometimes. Hugs.
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November 30th, 2010, 04:08 PM
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I know it's hard not to worry, there's so many things in PG that make me paranoid and worried. Hope the next few days go quickly for you!
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November 30th, 2010, 06:46 PM
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I can so relate to how you are feeling. I had major ms at 4wks. It was so bad they had to put me on zofran but then around 5w it suddenly stopped. My boobs have never hurt. They didn't hurt at all through my last 2 pregnancies either. I really have no pregnancy symptoms at all. I was getting HCGs done but it was just making me worry even more so I just stopped. I don't have an appt until next week to even see if there is anything there so I have just been trying to keep myself busy and not think about it.

It makes it so much harder to just enjoy anything when you have had a previous loss. I hope you have a super sticky bean in there and your labs give you a little hope.
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November 30th, 2010, 08:28 PM
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thank you ladies-I'm still pg today, and I'll thank God that I wake up pg tomorrow morning. I guess I'll just keep doing that for 250 more days
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November 30th, 2010, 08:32 PM
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I didn't get any symptoms with my last pregnancy until I was 6-7 weeks. Praying for you that you have a super super sticky bean in there!!
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