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My boobs aren't sore at all today, and I wasn't up to pee at all last night. What if the baby has died already? That's what happened with my first pg, baby died at 5w and we didn't know until 12w, m/c at 14 weeks
I bought two pair of discount mat pants yesterday, did I mess up and jinx myself?
No. You know there is nothing that can be done at this point either way. My boobs didn't do anything the last few. Like they are just used to it. All you can do is pray for the baby. I am praying for you both!!
We're just so scared. I hate feeling like this. With Nolan, I always just assumed there'd be another dead baby with each u/s, neither of us truly bonded with him until 33 weeks, when we knew he was a boy, and we knew he could live. Isn't that terrible thinking for a mother?
We were just so excited for our first pg, and we were sideswiped when we believed so hard that baby was fine, and it turns out it had been dead inside me for months. I never want to have such a horrible surprise again.
I am not in control. I need to learn that.
Thank you FW
I can so relate to how you are feeling. I had major ms at 4wks. It was so bad they had to put me on zofran but then around 5w it suddenly stopped. My boobs have never hurt. They didn't hurt at all through my last 2 pregnancies either. I really have no pregnancy symptoms at all. I was getting HCGs done but it was just making me worry even more so I just stopped. I don't have an appt until next week to even see if there is anything there so I have just been trying to keep myself busy and not think about it.
It makes it so much harder to just enjoy anything when you have had a previous loss. I hope you have a super sticky bean in there and your labs give you a little hope.
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