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October 8th, 2013, 09:32 AM
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OK Im hoping this is not to touchy of a subject but some friends and I were talking about dtd and I was amazed at the thinking of some people who 'assume' because we have alot of kids that we dont really have TIME for doing it.

Without going into to details but early mornings or evenings are yeah the most convenient and can be more 'intament' HOWEVER, please tell me that we are not the only ones in this entire world that have found something to occupy the kids( and the baby is sleeping, in another room ) while we slip out for a quicky. I mean although we have alot of kids we still do it a least every day and sometimes more.

But REALLY, is it wrong to DTD when you have kids still living in the house????

sorry in advance if this is to personal of a subject for here!
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October 8th, 2013, 10:18 AM
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Well if we didn't have sex while there were still kids in the house we'd have some really widely spaced siblings for those kids.

It's easier on Christmas and other holidays where they are preoccupied. Sometimes in the summer if I can get rid of enough of them at a time. Otherwise it's at night. Or somewhere in public when we go out LMAO
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October 8th, 2013, 10:29 AM
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Well if we didn't have sex while there were still kids in the house we'd have some really widely spaced siblings for those kids.

Or somewhere in public when we go out LMAO
WWWooOOooW!!!!! thats gotta put some "pep in your step!"
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October 8th, 2013, 11:04 AM
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Oh yeah, during school when the bigger kids are gone and the smalls can watch a dvd and the baby is asleep.....it is ON. LOL

While the early mornings, late nights or heck, middle of the nights are most convenient....an afternoon quickie can be nice.
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October 8th, 2013, 12:05 PM
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Well, I apparently am not nearly so active as some of you.....

Anyhow, the baby is in our room so if it's at night, he might already be sleeping (the baby, that is). Nap times are usually good times and before the older girls get home from school. Otherwise, we have been known to get the older kids to occupy the little ones, and we lock our bedroom door. Hubby works 24-hour shifts so that's how we can make nap times work.
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October 8th, 2013, 12:15 PM
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Yeah they wouldn't fall for "nap" here. We never take naps. lol
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October 8th, 2013, 03:02 PM
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Mornings usually. Night rarely. We used to do the nooners when the baby was napping and tell the kids I am tKing a nap. It was back when I didn't let them watch vt all the time so I would let the, watch something and they would be so happy.

Seriously not doing it every day. That is to be commended.
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October 9th, 2013, 06:26 AM
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I'm too tired at night mostly so sneaking away during the day is where it is at!
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October 9th, 2013, 06:58 PM
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Ok so we NOT the odd ones out !!!! gooood to know lol..

PS

Just to clarify ---we average usually once a day...and NOT always! we have our 'dry' days. but I didnt mean to give that impression!
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October 9th, 2013, 09:22 PM
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Me and hubby DTD all the time we find lots of time morning, night and when the kids are busy lol

I always laugh when people assume we have trouble DTD our kids do give us time lol
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October 10th, 2013, 05:31 AM
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Hah, once a day that's funny. It's like once a week MAYBE, more like once every two.
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October 10th, 2013, 12:52 PM
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We are probably getting it in 3x a week. There is just too much going on here for anything daily. LOL
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November 14th, 2013, 08:45 PM
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Funny thing is, we must be dtd if we have "all these kids". LOL
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November 16th, 2013, 11:09 PM
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Oh yes we can always make time. Really if none of us were like rabbits this group wouldn't exist! Lol sorry but I know DH and I are like rabbits!
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