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This is a very hard update. I miscarried our precious triplets on 9-25 at 14 wks. I had a spontaneous miscarriage. I had baby A at home at in the am. We are still not sure I had baby A through my cerclage. We went to the hospital and they thought there might be hope to keep baby B & C, as long as I had baby A's placenta. But that didn't happen, I had baby B and C later that night. I was losing lots of blood and still had not had baby A's placenta yet. So they took me back for a D&C, after the D&C I had to have 2 blood transfusions. I stayed in the hospital for a couple of days. DH and I had the triplets cremated, so they will always be with us no matter where we move with the army.
We spoke to a MFM DR and they said I need to have my uterus checked to make sure it is normal, since this is my 2nd, 2nd trimester loss.We also have to go and see a genetic DR and we both have to be tested. The MFM DR also said that if we do try again that we need to do IVF and only transfer one embyro at a time b/c my body will not handle twins or triplets again. We are very nervous about trying again. We are very afraid that we will lose more babies. We are considering using a surrogate, instead of me getting pregnant again. This is my 3rd miscarriage and it is killing me.
We aren't sure were to really to go from here. It was great to get to know you ladies while I was here. I wish you ladies the best. Thanks so much for all of the T&P's.
Missing our precious angel baby 7-5-10.
Missing Matthew Taylor our beautiful boy 12-23-10
Missing our beautiful Triplets 9-25-11
Oh my goodness. I've been thinking about you the past couple of days and remembered seeing the first post (someone posted a link to it for us). I am so sorry Becky. I cannot imagine what you are going through, but I will pray for you and your family. May the Lord carry you through and bring you peace.
Much thanks to Alethia for my beautiful siggie and tags!!
Dec 26 '08, BFP after 21 months thanks to acupuncture
Jan 14 '09, first u/s one strong heart beat
Jan 28, '09, second u/s, Surprise! two strong heart beats
Aug 13, '09 Arya and Eiley are born on what would have been their great grandmother's 105th birthday 365 Days in a Roe