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August 27th, 2009, 10:04 AM
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I was pregnant with twins, and one of them has no heartbeat now, I saw both the heartbeats the first u/s. And I don't know where to post. I feel empty. I'm still pregnant, but I just feel like I'm lucky to still have the second twin. But I'm sad too. I don't know how to handle it. And I know this pregnancy is going to result in a baby. I just KNOW it.
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August 27th, 2009, 11:31 AM
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Oh, honey, I am so very sorry!!! We'll keep you and your bean in our prayers.
I know the next several months won't be easy, but I also know that you can do it!!!

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August 27th, 2009, 12:29 PM
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Hi Dawna! Thank you so much. I was hoping for both of them but I do feel blessed to have at least one of them. I just ache for the other baby.
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August 27th, 2009, 01:24 PM
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I'm so sorry Lillian. Something similar happened to my mom. She got pregnant with triplets, but at her second appointment, one of the heartbeats was gone. The other two survived and are now teenage boys. Having them survive helped heal my mom's heart, but she still thinks of the other baby sometimes. She always will. But having her living children has gone a long way in helping her.

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August 27th, 2009, 03:36 PM
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We have a couple moms that have gone thru this and I see their posts. Watching one grow knowing there should be two...

I won't coddle you and say it's going to be easy... I know it's not.
And if/when you need to talk, cry, worry, etc... we're here!!!
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August 27th, 2009, 06:33 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss.
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August 27th, 2009, 09:55 PM
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August 28th, 2009, 06:06 AM
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Awww, I'm sorry Lillian.
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August 28th, 2009, 07:47 AM
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Maybe we need a "Multiples" section for those of us who have lost a multiple / all mutiples. I'm sure some of us woudl benefit from it.

I am very sorry about your loss
I lost my Noah at 32 weeks gestation. He is Julia's twin brother.
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August 28th, 2009, 07:55 AM
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I guess the thing I want to tell you is that you have every right to grieve for this baby. YES there is another one, but just like losing a singleton and then having another baby wouldn't make you stop grieving for that singleton, having a surviving twin doesn't mean that you should not grieve for the twin you lost. That future you were envisioning is now forever changed. I'm so sorry.

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September 4th, 2009, 09:59 AM
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Thanks Brittanie and Dawna and Bonnie, and everyone else!

Barb-I remember you, but I didn't know that we both lost our Noah's. I lost mine at 28wks, but I do remember that we both have tattooes of their feet right? Mine are on my sternum and yours...your back?
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September 4th, 2009, 11:49 AM
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Thanks Brittanie and Dawna and Bonnie, and everyone else!

Barb-I remember you, but I didn't know that we both lost our Noah's. I lost mine at 28wks, but I do remember that we both have tattooes of their feet right? Mine are on my sternum and yours...your back?
Yes ma'am we do

I have his footprints tattooed on my upper left arm.
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September 4th, 2009, 12:16 PM
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