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January 25th, 2010, 10:57 PM
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Okay...I want to get pregnant again already. What the heck.

The main thing stopping me from telling Bill is that I had a C-section. I am scared to get pregnant too soon again because I don't want to up my risks of uterine rupture. But I don't really know alot about that?

I am heavy and have lost almost 30 pounds since having her. During her entire pregnancy I only gained 17 pounds and I had lost it by one month after. I am still working on losing, but we are just practicing the so-called pull-n-pray (but we're not really praying to NOT get pregnant...so I guess we're just pulling).

We start our counseling for DH's problem with alocohol and porn/sex addiction this weekend but he seems to be doing well lately and we have been going at it on almost a daily basis. So I'm secretly hoping for a surprise pregnancy but I am also enjoying being with him, not just thinking about getting pregnant this time.

I feel like I just want to get pregnant again and then concentrate on losing a bigger chunk of weight. Then if it hasn't happened yet and we feel ready try for number 3. Then after that I want to get a breast reduction because I have been having back priblems and my boobs are really big but I have read you should be at a weight you are content with because if you lose a substantial amount after it you can wind up losing ALL breast tissue.

Ugh. Is this a good idea or should I wait???
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January 26th, 2010, 05:40 AM
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Thats a really personal decision....if you're not sure, then what you are doing is probably a good method lol...because if a surprise happens you obviously wouldn't be devastated I personally love surprises!

I just wanted to say that I'm glad you're back! And it is so good to hear things are looking up for you and Bill. I think of you often.
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January 26th, 2010, 06:58 AM
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Yay! Bonnie's back!

I don't know, there were 5 months between my pregnancies with Cora and Erin and it was really hard on me physically. I can't imagine only 3 months with having had a csection.

But like Kathryn said, it's your personal decision. Wanting a baby but not telling my husband was how I got Patrick = He decided one night not to use a condom and I let him.

Anyway, good luck either way!
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January 26th, 2010, 12:15 PM
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Welcome Back! I'm glad you guys are doing well. Sorry, I don't have an answer to your question, like other girls said, it's probably a personal decision.
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January 29th, 2010, 06:27 PM
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I waited after having a c-section and for me it was a good idea.
I found it took a bit to recover after my surgery, but each person is different.
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