New TTC'er here

BrittanyNicholeT · #1 November 14th, 2011, 10:29 AM

Hi, My name is Brittany. I am 23 years old. My husband and I have been together for almost 4 years and married for almost 2 years. We got married on our 2 year anniversary.

I have not had AF since July 2008. Not sure why....but believe it has to do with my weight. My husband and i have not use condoms since we were married, with no luck so far.

Sniffers · #2 November 14th, 2011, 11:02 AM

Hey Brittany! I'm new here too. Have you been tested to find out why you haven't had a period?

BrittanyNicholeT · #3 November 14th, 2011, 11:43 AM

No I haven't. Scared to. Afraid of what they might tell me

sfarrow3 · #4 November 14th, 2011, 11:56 AM

Welcome!!! ((Hugs)) I know the unknown can be scary, but the sooner you know why you can try to fix the problem! Good luck!

BrittanyNicholeT · #5 November 14th, 2011, 12:42 PM

I posted another question in the Am i pregnant section but for some reason it is not showing up.

So here's the question:
First a little history. I haven't had AF since July 2008. I believe it's from being over weight. however in August of 2011 i lost some weight. Since the beginning of October my breasts have been very tender. I have been getting up 2 or 3 times a night hurting because i have to pee sooooooooooo bad. and also i have had super bad backaches where sitting or standing even for a short time hurts.

I have taken 4 $ Tree test. october 28th was a negative. November 4th was a negative November 11th was a smeared what looked like to me to be a positive. (The previous 3 were taken with evening urine) and then the 4th one was taken on November 12th with morning urine and was negative.

Any suggestions? Could i be pregnant?

Aillidh · #6 November 14th, 2011, 06:58 PM

to JM!

HizMineandOurz · #7 November 16th, 2011, 11:19 AM

Welcome! I'm Kellee I've been on anf off JM since 2006 I've met some winderful people and you will also. I'm also ttc sl I am sure I will see you around the boards, good luck!

Lady Valkyrie · #8 November 17th, 2011, 02:20 PM

Welcome and have plenty of baby dust!

You may want to visit the Am I Pregnant board, as the ladies there might have some good advice for you, though seriously, I'd get some medical advice - I can understand your fear but half of that comes from the unknown and once you know what you're dealing with you'll probably feel a whole lot better.

I'm Sharron, host of The Mommy Lounge, Love & Sex, and Children with Developmental Delays and Disorders, and regular member of General Spirituality and UK Mummies. Hope to see you around!