Hi! I'm new here! :) :)

honeybeexx · #1 May 14th, 2012, 09:18 PM

Hi, there! I'm Morgan. I'm new here! Just a little bit about me, I'm 20 and my husbands name is Joey. We've been married for a year now. We've lost two little ones in the first trimester. He has a daughter from his last relationship. Both of our losses hit us really hard. We've been using the pill up until about two months ago, then we switched to condoms... he just suprised me last week and told me he doesn't want to use them anymore!

He is saying we're NOT trying, but we're not NOT trying. So, whatever that means in guy language? Haha. He said to give it a month or two and we'll start using ovulation tests and stuff. I have a hard time getting pregnant, and have had three losses and no healthy babies... so, he said we'll wait a few months and then go to my OBGYN and get some help.

Right now, I'm thinking we're trying, even if we're not verbalizing it. Men are so complicated!

I'd love to make some friends on here, that hopefully want to get preggers too! Nice to meet you all!

mommy of almost 4 · #2 May 15th, 2012, 08:48 AM

I'm sorry for all the losses you have had. I am a mother of three and son to be four. We were not trying at all but things just happen. Is a good idea to go see the OB just to get some information from them about why you have mis-carried so many times. I wish you guys luck, and i'm sure he wants to knock you up.

kerian · #3 May 15th, 2012, 10:34 AM

hi and welcome!!!

i am so sorry for your losses (((hugs))).
you should check out the ttc after a loss board, the ladies there are so nice and a great support-Trying to Conceive after Loss - JustMommies Message Boards
and the recurrent miscarriage and pregnancy loss board-Recurrent Miscarriage and Pregnancy Loss - JustMommies Message Boards