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I everyone Im new here! and Im not quite sure if I am in the right forum/category. But I have an issue hoping someone can give me an advice. I just took two pregnancy test and they both came out positive. I have bled two times in December 2012 and they were a week and half apart. Im not sure what exactly is going on.
Another thing is that I have already been pregnant. So I were pregnant again. This would be my second. But the thing is Im afraid to tell my family.. My family and relatives dont really like the father of my baby. And I guess if i break the news to them, it will end up a big o' fat mess! Please help me Im going insane..
I wish I knew how to tell you what to do and how to break the news, I'm in the same boat with you. I am afraid to tell my family, we have never been close and I am scared of the judgement and ridicule my family will place on me. I have decided to wait until after my first trimister is over. Even more so I am going to wait until my sweetheart (Brandon) comes home for support be together when u break the news
Hey, I am not yet a mother and am not planning on becoming one any time soon. I am married too and i do have the same issue with my family and what i have learned so far is that It's honestly better to tell them now before they find out through the grape vine, or come over when your 6 months along and see that a secret has been kept! If it were me, stay strong, this is YOUR life and you share it with your husband, they cant change that. Don't let them. Id tell them just that and if they have a problem with it, they dont have to see your child, you dont need that stress, nor does your hubby and your child.
Now that's just me, but I hope that it will atleast give you a little more strength. Have a blessed pregnancy mothernature