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I came to this sight not looking for an answer, I know I am the only one who can make the decision but I am terrified and I am looking for help of some form. I just found out I'm pregnant with a man who I am and have been deeply in love with for a long time but him and I are very back and forth. I knew he wasn't going to be excited but I had no idea he would be so cold to me. He won't actually speak to me about it - every bit of conversation concerning this pregnancy has been via text. I have no desire to have an abortion but I know that is what he wants. I don't want to bring a baby in to this world that isn't wanted by both parents, I don't want to ruin his life... adoption isn't even an option... I could never give a baby that I carried away. I don't know what to do. THe whole thing is breaking my heart.
Welcome to JM. I'm so sorry to hear you're in a difficult situation and send my thoughts and prayers your way. It may just be a case of giving him time to come round. Have you got support from other family and friends? Someone you can confide in? You may also be able to chat about this and get some advice from ladies on your due date club or the Unplanned Pregnancy board (have a look on the main forum menu), as this is really just somewhere to post a quick hi. I truly hope everything works out for you xxx