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June 25th, 2013, 03:49 AM
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Hi! My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year (I am 23 he is 21) and were both active duty military. We have talked about our future together and he wants to have kids....one day. He has always made it clear that he is not ready for a baby. How do I tell him that a month before he deploys I am pregnant? I know that I have to and honestly I am thrilled about it but I don't know how he will react. And like I said he is about to deploy. And is it acceptable to not want to get married right away just because we got pregnant? This is obviously not how I wanted to build my future with this man but now that it has happened I am just confused and scared. Any advice would be appreciated.
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June 25th, 2013, 09:43 AM
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HI and welcome to JM! Congratualtions. My opinion is yes it is absolutely acceptable to not get married due to being pregnant. You already know that you have to tell him and in my opinion, sooner would be better.

Browse the main list of boards to find some that might be a good fit for you. You can find your due date club as well as we have a military board.
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June 29th, 2013, 06:50 AM
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Welcome to JM!

I agree with the other poster. Good luck honey.

The Military Mommies board is here: Military Mommies - JustMommies Message Boards You can probably find your DDC easily enough.

I'm Sharron, 38, UK mummy to Daniel and Michaela, co-host of the Spiritual Living and Readers & Writers boards, and always looking to recruit any UK/Ireland ladies for the regional board as well.

Hope to see you around!
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July 1st, 2013, 11:13 AM
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