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So, I am 23 years old and 20 weeks pregnant. I had not had a bf in a very long time, and I was feeling restless. I decided to go out one night with my girlfriend and have some drinks. I ended up getting WAY to intoxicated. For the most part, the night is a blur. I ended up leaving the bar with a guy and going to his hotel. We had sex WITH protection. It was not rough, it seemed like we were careful, and it lasted around 4 minutes tops. I left the next morning not even knowing his first name! I hardly even remember what he looks like. It was meant as a one night stand.
All I know is that he lives in Edmonton. I have no way of ever tracking him down in this lifetime.
ALSO- this sexual encounter was 2 days after my period, and we used a condom. I had no concerns about pregnancy what so ever. almost 4 weeks later I took a test when my period was late-and I was pregnant! I was happy because I thought it was my bfs baby. I had been having sex with him-unprotected during my entire ovulation period. I had no doubt it was his.
When I went to my ultrasound, the dates confirmed that I conceived the day I was with random guy from the bar! I could not believe that against all odds, the baby was HIS.
I kept the baby, and as i mentioned am 20 weeks now. It still could be my ex boyfriends baby, but the ultrasound being a week off has me concerned.
Does anyone think my ex could be the father? IM SO SCARED
I think it's highly unlikely you became pregnant from the one night stand with the details you gave. Babies grow at different rates and can always be a week ahead or behind but it wouldn't mean it's the one night stand's baby. I honestly believe, from your details, it's your boyfriend's baby. But if you want, you can always have a DNA test done...
DS2 (Due in May!!)