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ok ive been with her we where trying to have a baby about the same time she got pregnant she was messing around with her ex boyfriend and she told me that now it makes me worry its not mine and i love her to death and im gonna raise the kid as it was mine cause we both planned but what she did with him she told me when she found out she was pregnant that was an accident with him and i have to be put thru this he had a condom i didn't and she is five months along now we got ultrasound pictures last week and its a girl every keeps mentioning that evening the feet are big and its gonna be tall and they question me cus im not that tall ###### this stress for happening to me. i'm gonna be there for her no matter what i just with she didn't cheat on me when she got pregnant cus we were trying at the time like everyday
I'm so sorry that you are going through this. You seem like a great guy to stay with her after she confessed she cheated on you and all. When the baby is born, you should know if she is yours or not. Babies are usually born with the same blood type as the father. Find out what her ex's blood type is, and you should know yours, and when your daughter is born, you will know her blood type.
you sound like a great guying since you will be there whether the baby is yours or not....i will pray she is yours. You can do a paternity test while the mother is pregnant, but it is painful. Best thing is to wait it out and do a paternity test after she is born. Just contact planned parenthood or somewhere like that (or yellow pages under paternity tests) to find ouut about the tests. I agree w/ Rylee, most babies are born w/ their fathers blood type, BUT SOME ARE NOT, my daughter has A negative blood and my husband is AB positive. Also, dont worry about the ultrasound showing she will be tall w/ big feet......a lot of times those measurements are estimated guesses.
Awww I am so sorry to hear about that. You can get a peternity test done right after she is born. That is a beautiful name that you have picked out. I am so sorry to hear about this. I am glad you reconciled and that you want to be there for the baby. Yay for you. She is a lucky woman. I hope that everything works out your way hun. Best wishes and lots of