[Brandiwine77]

When you get your bfp, are you going to wait to tell people, or are you not going to be able to hold it in and tell everyone right away?

[~April04~]

Well since my immediate family and my DH's immediate family know we're doing IVF, they'll know right away.. I plan on keeping it a secret from everyone else for awhile (maybe lol).. I've had a loss at 10 weeks so I know I'll pretty nervous until the second trimester.

[txjovigal]

I say that I will wait but more than likely we won't... Tony & I have big mouths and we will want to spread the joy... but who knows.

I guess we will cross that bridge when we get there.

OH, but I do plan on sharing it with my JM FRIENDS!! You ladies will probably be the 2nd to know... Tony being the first!!

[Brandiwine77]

Yeah, I have a pretty big mouth too, lol. Of course David will be the first to know (unless I need help getting the surprise way of telling him ready), and you ladies will be the 2nd ones to know! Maybe we'll all be spilling our guts soon

[tasjaanalee]

Well, I plan on waiting to tell... miscarraige 'runs in the family' (not that that is technically possible, I don't think, but you know what I mean...) so I'm really nervous about the first trimester...

realistically, though.... I know I have a big mouth, lol.... I'll keep going "Oh, I'll just tell her...", until I've seen everyone I know.... and then tell them all not to tell, so everyone will nknow, but no one will discuss it, hahaha.

[BeckyM]

Yep, big mouth here too - I know I'm going to want to shout it to everyone I see. My plan though is other then my immediate family & a few close friends, I want to wait until the 2nd trimester. Of course my JM ladies will know right away.