Are you secretly TTC?

*Mommy2Remington* · #1 March 12th, 2010, 02:52 PM

How many people know you are TTC? Are you keeping it a secret from anyone? Do you talk to your friends about your TTC w/ MI issues?

#2 March 12th, 2010, 03:15 PM

Most of our friends and family know we're ttc, however we have told some people that we put it on hold since I'm going back to school. Just so we don't get asked every time we see them "any news yet?" The only people who know we are dealing with MFI is our parents, DH's boss and some people at my work. It's nice to have people who are not related to me to talk to about this.

*Mommy2Remington* · #3 March 12th, 2010, 07:54 PM

We are the same way too! Our entire family knows, although- we are telling them we have 'slowed down' so they don't really expect anything. All of our friends know since we're like that last to have kids. DH and his boss are pretty close so of course he knows as well. Plus, DH goes to all my doc apts so its nice that he can tell his boss the truth on why he needs a day off. And again, like you said- I love this site. Its sooo great talking to people who are going through the same thing we all are. I get a little tired of talking to my parents and listening them say "Just relax....." UGH!! Its not THAT easy when DH has problems....

#4 March 12th, 2010, 08:24 PM

I get soooo tired of the just relax thing too!! I have told a few people... there is no amount of relaxing that will give DH sperm, he has 0! It's harsh, but after I have the same person tell me just relax 5 times it's needed!