Hi I have been gone from the forum for a while on a TTC break. came back and see all new people. so I thought I should re introduce myself.
My name is Lisa im 40 yrs old. my DH is Kerry 35 yrs old. were TTC our first together , but im blessed to have 4 girls from my previous marriage. we surprisingly conceived on our own the first month we were together. but I sadly lost the baby at 5 weeks. of course I wanted to get right back to TTC certainly if we made it happen naturally once we could do it again right?. well after TTC for a while and getting frustrated it was not happening again. we had some tests done all the tests on me came out good. thyroid was good. 21day progesterone test was good. HSG showed open tubes.
then I send DH for a SA and it came back very low. volume only 1 ml. count only 16 million, 30 % were healthy they said that was a good number. but only 8 % were progressively moving. they gave me 0 hope of getting pregnant naturally again.
just before the SA we found out both him and I had a infection we had it treated of course but im wondering if it still affected his count. on the day of the SA.
ever sence then we have tried many supplements to increase his count. I dont know how they have really worked cause I cant get DH to go back in for another SA. but I have not gotten pregnant so here we are still TTC, I have days where im so depressed and I really need some TTC buddies. its hard trying to think positive and stay hopeful when we have TTC for 18 months.
I wanted to go the donor route thinking well that would be the fastest way to get our BFP. but my DH is totally against it. but there is some hope he recently got a good job that is offering health insurance and it looks like they may cover some infertility treatment.
I hope to make some new friends here.