Well we got the results back from DH's s/a and there are still 0 sperm after 4 months on Clomid, even with his hormone levels looking good, still nothing.

His dr. wants him to stay on the Clomid and come back in for another appt. but I feel like we are chasing something that we are never going to achieve. We are waiting and waiting and getting more and more depressed about ttc every day. I am at a point where we need to just move on with our lives. We need to accept that DH won't be able to be the biological father. I need to have some good news in my life for once.

[cassandrab]

I am so sorry to hear that, I hope that something starts looking up for you soon!!

[*Mommy2Remington*]

I am soooo sorry to hear this. I thought for sure it would come back with high numbers. I wish I could jump through this screen and give you a hug.
Have you thought about donor sperm or adoption? I know its not the same as DH being the biological father- but you too could still experience being parents together.
Again- I am so sorry about the results.

[SarieP]

I'm so sorry hun

[~April04~]

((hugs)) I'm sorry hun

We are most likely going to be moving forward with donor sperm. We made a follow up appt with DH's urologist, but we've been talking about just doing donor sperm. We're both ready to be parents and it seems like this is the path we need to take to make that happen. We've heard 0 sperm and had to deal with it so many times that we're just ready to move on to actually becoming parents, not trying something else and waiting and being disappointed.

[*KittyCat*]

i'm so so sorry hun. If you go down the donor route, i really hope it's successful for you and you'll get the baby you both want

[Red Sox Mommy]

I'm so sorry to hear this I wish I knew what to say.