Yeah, besides cost, that's another reason IVF would be really hard for us to do....it would be hard for me to find a baby-sitter for all of those doctor visits, even if we did it locally.
I hope your IUI consult goes well and that your DH's next SA is better than you expect

My DH gets retested in December (3 months post varicocele repair) and we are both pretty nervous about what the results will be. It would be great if he could at least have enough swimmers to try IUI. I really don't think we will ever do IVF. Maybe we are just being stubborn b/c we got our little boy for "free", but I just can't see us ever spending that kind of money for just a chance at pregnancy.